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Bondage & Humiliation Phone Sex with Mistress Violet

Sexy Ms Violet ~ 1 800 574 1830

Bondage Phone Sex isn’t easy, but it can be done depending on your commitment to the experience. Don is very committed to making the experience as realistic as possible. He has many toys and tools for an effective session which include:  gags, hoods, clothespins, nipple nooses, corsets, tights/stockings, panties, chastity devices, cuffs, timer locks, butt plugs, and more. We had a serious, progressive session last week that was very entertaining.

The first phase of the session involved Humiliation Phone Sex too. I had Don put on the chastity belt, shibari liner(a corset liner that itches in all the right ways), nubby butt plug, lace thong, sports bra lined with sandpaper, control top pantyhose, and spandex tank top. Over the top of all that, he was allowed to put on his regular clothes. His assignment was to go out and purchase a chemise and panty set at Kohl’s department store. Then, go to the drugstore to purchase KY warming lotion. Can you imagine the discomfort and humiliation? I certainly enjoyed thinking about his shopping trip as I was taking mine.

Once Don completed his shopping assignment, he followed instructions to the letter and called me, his Phone Sex Mistress for the next phase. The second phase was all about being restrained.  We used a sponge gag, shibari corset, warming lotion, ginger root, inflatable butt plug, chastity panty, his new lace chemise and g-string, shibari bra liner, posture collar, and sponge gag soaked in urine. I had him cuff his ankles together and then cuff his wrists to the rings on his collar after climbing into a roof carrier to simulate a “coffin” sort of experience. Do you think that you could handle that for almost two hours? And there were two more phases to go.

Does the thought of being restrained and tormented for the pleasure of a sexy woman like me turn you on? How committed are you to real, but safe play? Call your Phone Sex Mistress and let’s play today!

Mistress Violet

Sensual Domination Phone Sex


Finally, I called Todd and invited him over for a sensual domination phone sex session at my dungeon/loft where I had a large exercise mat as well as the tools of my trade. I could tell that he’d psyched himself up to win, but I saw it melt away when he saw what I was wearing and the contents of my dungeon. I had a barely there string bikini top and tight silk hot pants. “What are you waiting for?” I said, breaking his revere. “Are you having second thoughts?”

He stepped onto the mat and I was on him in a flash. First, I needed him secured and then I would get down to the serious sensual domination phone sex. He was surprisingly quick and grabbed my wrists, but I was ready. I slammed my wrists together pinching his thumbs and making him release. As he winced in pain, I got behind him, wrapped my arms around his neck, and climbed on his back. I got him off-balance and he was down on the mat. I had him in a choke hold and quickly wrapped my legs around his waist. He struggled but I clung to him. I could sense his thoughts, ‘Was she right when she said she would win? Could I have so underestimated her?’ As he struggled to breath, I could see his eyes rolling. I had him now! I love guys in bondage!

Mistresss VioletHe came to as I finished securing his ankle. It was over almost as quickly as it began. He tried to put up a good fight, but I know in his heart, he wanted me to defeat him. I could see that he had realized it as well. The look on his face said, ‘My god! How could I have been so stupid, thinking only with my cock…again?’ Now it was time for the slow tease and denial phone sex. He was at my mercy and I wanted to take my time to fully enjoy it. I told him, “You’re my little sex toy now and I’m going to use you as long as I want.”

Tell me, what do you suppose cums next? I’d love to hear your thoughts, so give me a ring for your own, personalized kinky sensual domination session with me!

Mistress Violet

Domination Phone Sex Mistress

Mistress Violet 1-800-571-1830My creative, dirty mind can twist any kind of kinky domination phone sex fantasy you might have in mind. I’m a no taboos lady, so bring me anything your perverted mind can muster up because I have absolutely no limits when it comes to our calls!

Kinky phone sex Mistress call can include almost anything from BDSM, corporal punishment, sissy training, CBT, tease and denial, guided masturbation and so much more. I’ve had a lot of experience with all sorts of fantasies and fetishes. Let me tease you a bit with a kinky, little erotic story to wet your whistle.

I met Todd at the party of a mutual friend. My first impression of him was that he was a bit of a wimp. I frequently speak my mind, so I said, “You don’t work out much, do you? If you did, you’d look great. Right now, I bet that even I could take you.” By the conflicting emotions that flitted over his face, I could tell he didn’t know what to think. Maybe he thought that I was crazy or grandstanding because he managed to stammer back, “Oh yeah? What’s the stakes for this bet?”

Mistress Violet 1-800-574-1830Even though he stammered, I was impressed that he managed a comeback. I slowly eyed him up and down and said, “How’s sensual domination phone sex session grab you? If I win, I get to do anything with you that I want. If you win, you can do anything you want with me.” When he didn’t reply, I said, “Look, I’m not too much of a sadist. I won’t hurt you, but maybe a little ‘slap & tickle’. I only want to defeat you, restrain you, and strip you naked so I can get a look at that wimpy little body of yours.’Oh there it was, the look of male ego and overconfidence. I could almost read his thoughts, “Does this chick really think she can take me? I got her beat. This is too good an offer to refuse!’ Then the last glimpse that he tried to hide, but I could clearly see his arousal at wrestling with a woman, being overpowered, and at her mercy.

Of course, he took my challenge as it was a win-win situation for him no matter what the outcome. We didn’t go at it right there at the party, but the stage was set. I didn’t want to public but only private humiliation. I let him sweat it a bit, giving him time to think about it; fantasize.

Want to hear more … check back in a few and read the rest!

Mistress Violet

2 Girl Sissy Phone Sex

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I’ve been having some hot, nasty 2 girl Sissy Phone Sex calls with that naughty, submissive Summer! She has this little ‘girlfriend’ by the name of Alli that is a total cum-whore. These two girls love to get-down together and act like total cum-sluts. I have to admit that it’s very amusing to me to feed these hungry, horny bitches!

Today, I caught the submissive slut and her sissy phone sex slut friend looking at bukkake

videos with big black cocks. Oh those 2 sluts were drooling and begging to suck-off those big black hoses. Those horny, little sluts were begging me to get a bunch of black guys to come over for non-stop circle-jerk. I honestly think they’re addicted to cum. Of course, nothing would give me more pleasure and amusement than to have to horny bitches as my little beck-and-call girls to service a gang of hard-pounding horny black guys.

I’d get them down to their teeny, tiny thong panties with their hands tied behind their backs so I could stand behind them and force their naughty cunt-mouths up and down on those big black cocks!

Are you looking for some hot, exciting 2 Girl Phone Sex with a dominant bitch like me and a submissive cum-slut like Summer? I’m sure that you’d enjoy every minute of it whether you were a sissy like Alli or a big stud-muffin like my well-hung black friends. We cater to all types of fetishes and fantasies and would love to include you in some of our slutty playtime fun! Give either of us a call!

Mistress Violet  1-800-574-1830

Summer  1-877-896-1086

Humiliation Phone Sex

He told me that he’d always craved Humiliation Phone Sex ever since he had been humiliated by a woman for premature ejaculation and a small penis. We chatted for a bit and the terms were set. We set up a role play where I was his sexy boss and I found out that he harbored lust-filled thoughts about me and that he had a secret stash of femdom porn in his desk. The game was on!

For a little extra fun with this new Phone Sex Sissy, I insisted that he give me all the particulars about his wife and his actual boss. Sometimes it’s necessary to use a little blackmail to insure that a naughty submissive stays in line. Of course, at the start, he begged me not to tell his boss or his wife about his kinky fantasies. I assured him that it would remain our secret so long as he was an obedient slave. I had him turn on his webcam and strip for me. Then I had him put on a pair of lacy, pink panties he’d managed to steal from his boss. Just the act of doing this on webcam for me had his little penis hard and dripping pre-cum. I was only getting started.

Violet21From this point, I knew that he was putty in my most capable hands. We began with Spanking Phone Sex. I had him bend over the table with his ass in the air and he picked up his newly purchased paddle and began to spank himself, but not hard enough for my tastes. I insisted he pull down those pretty panties, but only from behind. I wanted so see how red his ass cheeks could get. He began to paddle again, harder and more vigorously. Finally, once his ass cheeks were a bright, angry red, I decided that it was time for the big fat dildo.

I had him get down on his knees and show me how he’d worship my strap-on cock if I had been standing in front of him. I teased him and told him what a pretty sissy he was with that dildo in his mouth. I could see him down on his knees servicing not only my strap-on but perhaps servicing a number of real cocks as I fucked his little bitch-ass with my strap-on. This comment alone almost made him cum as he imagined sucking each one of his male co-workers’ cocks while his sexy boss fucked him with her strap-on.

Well, what would you do? Do you think you could hold-off until I allowed you to cum or do you think that you’d just squirt off in those pink, lacy panties while fucking yourself on webcam for me? Call me and let’s find out!

Mistress Violet

Happy Holidays from Your Phone Sex Mistress!

tease-and-denialHere’s your Phone Sex Mistress wishing all you bad boys a happy holiday season! I’m going to be away through the end of the year and I know you’ll be missing me. To tide you over thru the end of the year, take the time to read the Christmas erotic story I wrote a few years ago on this blog.

Here’s a little preview..

Chime go the bells! Tis the season to be jolly .. fa la la la fuck. All this contrived holiday joy just masks the incessant hustle, bustle, and frantic scrambling to and fro for just that perfect gift for that special some one, bah. These were Violet’s thoughts as she watched all the superficially “jolly” folk scamper about shopping at the mall. The Christmas cheer is all well and good for those whose innocence is still as pure as the driven snow, but for Mistress Violet, that fake sheen of innocence was as long gone as her girlish hopes and dreams, her belief in fairy tales or the mystery of magic. Now, she lived in the shadows at the edge of the abyss as the object of the dark desires of all male hearts.

Take this link, A Christmas Story, to read the rest of the beginning. Or you can use the search bar, but make sure not to skip to the end or you’ll miss all the fun!

Look for me next year!

Mistress Violet

Sensual CBT Phone Sex

For this Sensual Phone Sex session, the first thing he had to do was ‘earn’ the privilege. He told me that all he had to offer were his “services”, but why would I need the “services” of a high school English teacher? I considered his request for a session and decided to give him a chance.

He arrived for his possible Sensual CBT Phone Sex session promptly, a good beginning. I had a cute, little outfit laid out for him: see-thru pink teddy with matching see-thru pink thong, black garter with lace-topped thigh-highs, and a pair of 3″ black slides. Wordlessly, he stripped and donned his “uniform” for the evening. Then I told him what “services” I required of him as “tribute” for the session he craved. I showed him to the linen closet where I had all my cleaning supplies and told him that he would be dusting, sweeping, vacuuming, mopping, doing dishes, cleaning litter boxes, and taking out the trash. At the last, he looked up at me and said, “The trash, Mistress? In this outfit?” and I said, “Yes, do you have a problem with that?” Blushing, he replied, “No, Mistress, no problem” and I left him to do what was required, telling him to report to me in my office once he’d completed his tasks so I could inspect his “work”. His time was limited so we both knew that if he was to get the session he so desperately wanted, he would have to work fast and be efficient. Approximately an hour later, he presented himself to me all flushed and sweaty. I was pleasantly surprised to find that not only had he done all the tasks but he’d done them quite well. He would receive his “reward”.

Ms Violet 1-800-574-1830I had him wait patiently while I turned into the Phone Sex Mistress he so desperately desired and worked so hard for too. I put on my black leather corset, thigh-fishnet stockings, and spike-heeled platform pumps. I returned and the stunned look on his face was priceless. Then, I took him into my dungeon where I’d setup all that would be needed for the session. I had him kneel. Part of his reward was to have the honor of worshiping my legs and pussy.  So, I had hot wax warming ordered him to first buff, wash, and wax my legs with my legs spread and my pussy right in front of his face. After seeing that he handled that well, I told him to do the same to my pussy. Also, if he was a “good boy” for the next part of the session, he’d be allowed to finish the session by worshiping my freshly waxed, smooth pussy with his tongue.

I strapped him to my “torture table” with his wrists together above his head, his legs spread and dangling off the bottom edge of the table. I strapped his ankles to the legs and fitted a strap around his waist to prevent any undo jerking around. Then I lit a candle. He’d told me that pain turned him on but I could already see that he was aroused. I pulled off his panties and pulled down the teddy to reveal his hard nipples and hard cock. Then I proceeded with the first part of the torture, ice and wax play. I went from nipple to nipple, down to his balls and tip of his cock as he shivered, partly due to the chill but mostly in excitement. When I noticed that I had sufficient wax pooling in the candle, I picked it up and started to drop wax on all the spots that I’d rubbed with the ice. After I’d coated his nipples, cock head, and balls with sweetly scented wax, I moved onto the next part of the session.

I picked up my leather crop and flogger. Alternating between the crop and the flogger, I snapped and slapped all the wax off his body. His grunts and howls were music to my ears and I couldn’t help myself, I began to verbally taunt him as well.

“You’ve been a very naughty boy, haven’t you?”

“Yes! Mistress!”

“You’re a horny naughty boy, aren’t you?”

“Yes, Mistress!”

As I taunted him, I was vigorously using my crop on the head of his cock. Slapping his cock, up and down until my crop was a blur and he was sweating and begging to cum. Then I stopped. I unstrapped him and helped him sit up.

“Are you ready to worship my pretty pussy?”

“Oh YES, please Mistress!”

I had him get down on his knees in front of me. Then I sat back on the edge of the table. Grabbing him by the hair, I shoved his face in between my thighs to my dripping wet pussy.

“Lick it like a good little slut and I’ll let you cum!”

Well, I let him cum and he licked up everything like a good little slut including his own explosion like a cum-eating slut!

A little CBT for you too? 😉 LOL!

Mistress Violet ~ 1-800-574-1830

Mistress Phone Sex and Pushing Limits

In my experience as a Phone Sex Mistress, one of the greatest gifts that a submissive gives to his/her Dominant is unwavering trust. I have heard countless stories from submissive men about that trust being abused on occasions where the sub was used way beyond their limits. Situations where they were beaten beyond sub-space or forced into situations that went beyond erotic into a scary nightmarish actuality. Don’t get me wrong, I believe in pushing limits, but I think that many Dominants can push too hard, too fast. The gift of trust is only the beginning. Nobody, submissive or otherwise, can have enough “blind trust” right from the start to be able to be completely and utterly submissive in the very first session. It takes time to build a good, trusting bond between Domme and sub. I have this sort of bond with many of my phone sex submissives as well as all of my past ‘live’ submissives.

Ms Violet 1*800*574*1830I have been K’s Phone Sex Mistress for a very long time. K is an exhibitionist & cumslut. We spent a long time building our relationship and that trust because we not only talk ‘fantasy’, but there is some ‘reality’ in there as well. A good ‘fantasy’ that we talk about is one where I take him out to a fetish club naked on a leash connected to a cock & ball harness. Once at the club, I have him perform on stage for the group in a variety of different ways. It is exciting and erotic for both of us to talk about this sort of scene and how it would play out, what I would make him do, and how all of it excites him, however, it’s not something that can actually be “done” via the phone. Another ‘fantasy’ that we talk of is where I kidnap him and his wife and make them cumsluts for a fetish party .. that was a particularly hot one .. LOL!

The reality part of our calls is a little more tricky because these are things that he is actually doing for me at my command and there has to be a certain amount of caution. There are many things to take into account when having somebody do something for you that is a long distance away from your personal physical control. The main concern for me is one of safety and legality. Something that is relatively simple and I’m sure many men have done without prompting, but could have dire consequences for him if he was “caught”, would be having him unzip his pants whilst driving to expose his cock and stroke. Now, as long as he’s got one hand on the wheel and is driving well, there is no problem, however, if he were to get pulled over by a police officer and wasn’t able to zip up quick enough, he’d be in a world of hurt. Other times in the dead, middle of the night when most people are a sleep, I’ve had him go out into his back or front yard completely naked and stroke his cock for me which excites him almost beyond reason. Once again, this is something that is only undertaken in certain circumstances where the possibility that he would be actually seen by another person is almost zero. These reality activities are the most exciting and thrilling for both of us, but they are the ones that we’ve had to slowly build on because of the potential ‘reality’ consequences if something went wrong.

I am very proud of the relationship that K and I have built. Even in the throes of excitement, he’s usually able to keep his “top head” enough so as to not lose complete control in his environment which is necessary when doing the reality assignments. It would be different if I was standing right there and in complete control of the physical environment. In a way, I feel “bad” that I cannot be there physically for him so that he can completely “let go” and have the trust that I am there and nothing bad could happen. Alas, that is not possible. Even still, we’ve worked on different activities and have built a bond and a comfort level where I am able to push his limits and he is able to do things that he would never have done by himself which has increased his level of trust as well as strengthened our D/s bond.

So, if you are looking for a Mistress into Sensual Domination Phone Sex and is able to responsibly push your limits, give me a call.

Mistress Violet

Sensual Domination Phone Sex

Consider this Sensual Domination Phone Sex scenario. You’re a submissive male looking to be dominated but you don’t like an extreme amount of pain. Your fantasies center around exposure, some humiliation, and of course, being used as a slut. In the deepest recesses of your mind, you want to be objectified and used like a slut by not one, but many women and even some men.

In this particular Sensual Domination Phone Sex fantasy, you will play my submissive boyfriend. In everything we do together, I am the one in charge and you like it that way. I tell you to jump and you say, how high. This evening, I tell you to strip naked and then I bind your wrists and ankles. You hear the doorbell ring as I’m tying the blindfold securely over your eyes. Then I leave you alone to get the door. In the bedroom blind and naked, you hear muted voices. You can just make out that it’s more than one person. Your nervous but incredibly aroused. You have no idea what is going to happen, but it thrills you to know that you might be exposed to other people.

06The Exhibitionism Phone Sex portion of the evening is about to begin. You hear the door to the bedroom open and instantly become alert to all sounds and smells. I say nothing to you, but you can smell my sweet perfume. Without a sound, I attach a collar and leash to your neck and lead you slowly out into the living room. You can hear that there are other people in the room even though they’re not saying anything. You can smell other perfumes and you assume it’s all women. Then I gently push you down on your knees. You cock is sticking straight out and dripping pre-cum. I introduce you to the assembled group and you hear murmurs of appreciation which arouses you even more. You sense movement all around you and jump a bit when somebody touches you and you realize that it’s not me. There are soft hands caressing your face, shoulders, back, ass, and then lightly stroking your cock. There are several hands touching you in various places but not enough in the place that you really want, the area that is aching for attention.

Then you feel my hot breath on the back of your neck and my breasts with hard nipples pressed against your back. I whisper in your ear, “They’re looking for a good show. If you put on a good show, I’ll take off your blindfold and let you cum. Will you be a good boy?”  Eagerly, you reply, “Yes! Oh please, Yes!” Staying close behind you I tilt your head upwards and you can sense the other people withdrawing except for directly in front of you. Something soft and smooth brushes against your lips. I tell you to open your mouth and you obey. Then you feel that soft, smoothness being pushed into your mouth and you realize that it’s a cock. I whisper in your ear again, “Remember, if you’re a good boy … ” What do you do? I think you know what you’d do for me and all those other women watching. Why don’t you give me a call and tell me what you’d do for us and I’ll tell you what you’ll get for being a good boy!

Mistress Violet

Sissy Phone Sex

Here’s a little taste of sissy phone sex with me, Mistress Violet and one of my little cross dressers. It was one of those hot, humid summer nights in New Orleans and I decided that I wanted to take stephanie out for a stroll. Of course, before we could take our little walk, we needed to get dressed and I had just the right outfits in mind for us both.

My little phone sex sissy slut, stephanie, was only too eager for me to get her all bathed, shaved, dressed, and done up in full makeup, however, had she known what else I had planned for the evening, I don’t think that she would’ve been quite as eager. Even though stephanie is a sincere submissive sissy slut, she is quite shy. So, going out was not something that she would be so eager and excited to do. I picked out a lovely deep purple satin corset and matching satin thong, purple crotch-less fishnet stockings, a very short, snug black skirt, and  black leather slides for stephanie to wear. For Myself, I picked out one of my lace-up leather midi tank-tops, leather thong and garters, black fishnet thigh-highs, short, tight leather mini-skirt, and knee-high leather lace-up platform shit-kicker boots with a 6″ heel. After I had stephanie all bathed, shaved, and lotioned, I got her all set up with a new set of breast forms and then I dressed up my sweet lil girl. Even before she was completely dressed, I noticed that she was quite excited and I asked her, “Will I need to restrain you tonight in your cockcage?” and she blushed, “No, Mistress, please.” So, I proceeded to finish by applying her makeup making sure it was nice but slutty with black eye liner and, of course, hot pink lipstick and styling her long blonde tresses with sweet pipe curls to frame her delicate face. Then I dressed and put the finishing touches on my hair and makeup. I put my hair up into a tight French twist and made sure that my lips were done up flawlessly in a deep ruby red color with a sheen of gloss. Stephanie watched all of this sitting demurely with her legs crossed.


When this phone sex Mistress finished, I turned to stephanie saying, “I have a big surprise for you tonight, my lil pet” and I took out her leather shackles and blindfold. So, she meekly held out her wrists which I shackled and then I tied the leather blindfold into place. The last touch was her leather training collar which I fastened around her neck. I clipped on her leash instructing her to stand, grabbed my toy bag, and proceeded to lead her out of the house. At this point, stephanie seemed to sense that I was not leading her to the dungeon playroom but to the front of the house, “Mistress?” is all she managed before she heard the unmistakable sound of the front door opening and started to balk, “Please Mistress, no, I’m not ready! Please!” I tugged firmly on her leash and calmly but firmly stated, “Yes, my pet, you are ready. Ready to make your debut as my little slut!” and with some trembling and a little more tugging, she gave in to whatever I had in store for her that evening.

After I led stephanie out onto the porch and locked the door, slipping the key into my cleavage, I took off the leash and blindfold. I turned to her and said, “It’s a nice evening for a walk, don’t you think?” and I started down the porch stairs. When I got to the bottom, I turned to find stephanie still standing just outside of the door trembling in fear and excitement.

(to be continued)Look for rest in the next installment … meanwhile, give me a call for your own transformation!

Mistress Violet  1-800-574-1830

Sissy Phone Sex

Cum one, cum all for sissy phone sex! I love sissy sluts, but I have a special place in my ‘heart’ for bi-sexual or metro-sexual sissy sluts. “Kelly” is what I would ‘term’ a metro-sexual sissy slut or let’s say it plain shall we, “An Equal Opportunity Slut”. 😉

Mistress Violet  1-800-574-1830Kelly has discovered a great deal about ‘herself’ under my tutelage. When Kelly and I first began talking several years ago, we talked about how much he wanted to be with a shemale. Gradually, as I got to know Kelly better and better, he admitted that his first ‘love’ had been a man, boy really, and how much he had enjoyed sucking his cock. He loved how being submissive made him feel. At that time, Kelly had strap on phone sex, but he’d sucked cock and been fucked like a slut, a male slut though.

I probed Kelly with more questions and discovered that he had on occasion worn women’s panties but no other female attire. I instilled a naughty thought or two in Kelly’s head when I talked about dressing up ‘Stephanie’ and how submissive that made him feel. Soon, Kelly was getting into wearing thongs, stockings, and ordering “slut dresses” online. Then one day, Kelly walked into a local woman’s lingerie shop and got into an illuminating conversation with a woman that worked at the store.

Now, Kelly is totally into sissy phone sex. He dresses up and plays with his girlfriend. Kelly’s girlfriend uses her strap-on to fuck her like a slut. There is only one thing missing that Kelly really needs … a big, juicy, real cock ( besides her own 😉 ) Kelly’s girlfriend would love to see her suck a nice cock and I believe, even get fucked by it while dressed up like a sexy sissy slut. I’ve seen Kelly suck a cock and take it like a naughty, slutty girl on webcam. Such a hot show! It’s too bad that Kelly’s guy friend didn’t have a bigger cock because that’s what Kelly really needs … a BIG ONE .. maybe even a nice big black cock! 😉 LOL!

Kelly, you need to get ‘on that’ and find yourself a nice, big black cock to suck and have fuck you on cam for Me. That is your mission, if you choose to accept 😉

Talk to you soon,
Mistress Violet

Orgasm Control & Your Phone Sex Mistress

This is in response to a comment from kelly on Orgasm Control that was posted on the Chastity, Tease & Denial and Milking post.Single

My girl friend is so hot and sexy when she gets close to cumming she is very vocal and moves extra sexy and then she makes me cum before she gets to cum and this is not good.
I get in REALLY big trouble.
What techniques can I learn to stop this and what can she do to make me last longer for HER. Most of the time I can hold out but I want it to be all the time I can hold it and cum when she says. Can you please help me? She is everything to me and my job is whatever she gives me and to make her cum ALWAYS. Please, please and sugar on top. thank you

Well, the way that Your Phone Sex Mistress is most familiar with in prolonging ejaculation is more of a “hands on” method that I don’t think would work too well for you during intercourse where the tip or base of the penis is ‘pinched’ right before ejaculation hence preventing ejaculation and most times retaining the erection. However, I did read this article that discussed this method as well as another method that could work for you, if you’re willing to work at it. This is “phase 1” of the second method mentioned.

Men and women have a muscle called the pubococcygeus, or PC. It’s the one men (and women, too) can use to stop peeing when the police catch them using the alley after they’ve had too much beer. When a man has an erection, he can use the same muscle to make Mr. Willy bounce up and down like a puppet show. (A jaunty, high-pitched “Hello!” adds to the effect.) To become multiply orgasmic, this muscle has to be trained. Men can literally lift weights with it by giving themselves an erection and hanging a towel over the end and trying to lift the towel.

And now something that you naughty little “tease & denial phone sex” boys will love . . . “phase 2”

Masturbation. A lot of it. But unlike those days when he was 13 and the goal was to finish as quickly as possible before his sister needed the bathroom, he should go slowly and try to reach a peak so he feels the beginnings of the trembles. Then he should stop immediately . . . When the feeling has passed, he can resume masturbating and try it again. The goal is to distinguish between the orgasm phase and the ejaculation phase which, he may be surprised to learn, are two different things. Typically, ejaculation follows orgasm by a second or two, though in the heat of battle they seem one in the same.

If you would like to read the full article check out Prolonging Pleasure

Now, this isn’t a method that I have used with anybody unless you count practicing ‘tease & denial’ working on prolonging ejaculation, so I’m not sure how well it will work, but give it a try and let me know. I’m curious to see how well it will work for you. Another recommendation would be to utilize a cock ring during intercourse. Just be careful that it isn’t so tight that it cuts of circulation. I wouldn’t recommend chastity for you because I believe that it would only exacerbate your current situation.

I have to say that you’re on the right path in wanting to do whatever you can to please your girlfriend and I’m sure that she will encourage you in this pursuit. Good luck and keep me informed about whether or not this method does in fact increase your stamina and help to prolong/prevent your ejaculation.

Mistress Violet  1-800-574-1830

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