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Mistress Violet  1-800-574-1830And for another addition of “Ask your Phone Sex Mistress with Mistress Violet. I was recently asked by one of my pets, let’s call him “tiny”, about cock bondage. For those of you that have had Phone Sex Domination sessions with me, you have probably had me talk you through a technique that is fairly simple and happens to be my favorite for the phone because it is easy enough for beginners.

Take a long shoestring or cord, center it underneath the ball sack and then bring it up and do a simple tie just tying the balls, then bring both ends back down under the ball sack and cross bringing the ends back up and then around the base of the cock and do a simple tie, then (if there are enough on the ends to continue) criss cross back and forth, front to back up the cock stopping just below the head of the cock and tying nice ( a ‘bowtie’ that is done when tying your shoes is fine and easier to undo if I decide to allow you to cum unrestrained)

With tiny’s obvious interest in exploring different techniques in cock bondage, your Phone Sex Mistress did a little exploring for herself to see what could be found for you naughty sluts. I was a little disappointed in my search. I only found one site that had any sort of visuals to assist, Rope Fashions, to download the 3 listed types of cock bondage instructional flyers you will need to become a member as I have already and have Adobe Reader, but it is a free membership and worth it if you would like to surprise me with a cock all tied up special for me.
Something that I would like to point out to my boys …CBT Phone Sex
When tying up your cock up nice for me, I need you to be careful. I know that I love to have you all tied up nice and tight, that is so delightful, but not too tight. Take a moment and look at this article Safety in Basic CBT and possibly this article as well, Basic CBT Safety. I point these articles out not to bore you to tears, hardly, but to make sure that you take the proper care. I hate it when my pets damage themselves. I much rather damage you myself! LOL
“Safe, Sane, & Consensual”

 

Nice job on that cock bondage pet!

Mistress Violet  1-800-574-1830

My Summer Vacation

Ha ha ha, that title sounds so ‘Elementary school’. You remember when you were in grade school, it was the start of the new year and the teacher would ask the class to write a paragraph or essay on “what you did on your summer vacation”. Well, I’ve been asked by so many of you about my vacation that I decided to do a little essay.

What I Did On My Summer Vacation
By Mistress Violet

For an interesting journey, there needs to be an interesting beginning. So, my journey begins at an unusual hour, one in the morning. I packed my big leather backpack and secured it to my Harley Roadster. All the arrangements had been made for the care of my plants and pets while I was away. The excitement is mounting as I dress for my trip. I have on my tight black leather pants, a soft, thin long-sleeved purple t-shirt, my black leather high-heeled riding boots, and black leather jacket. All I need to start is to don my black leather gloves and helmet. I can taste the potential in the night air and I smile as I straddle my bike, put on my gloves and helmet, and kick my bike to life.
I love riding my bike on the highway at night. It’s almost magical like you’re cutting through the night and if you’re in the right place at the right time, you could slice your way into a whole new dimension. It’s one of the biggest non-chemically induced “highs” that I know. I was eagerly anticipating riding through the mountains at night on my bike. I’d only ever been through the mountains before in a car or truck. As expected, it was awesome! I sped along clinging to my bike, my bike clinging to the road. It was a very “zen-like” experience, otherworldly even. I was one with the bike and the bike was one with the road and the road was one with the mountains. There really is no other way to explain it.
The sun started to come up as I was riding down out of the mountains and the day was beginning to warm up. I stopped at Love’s Travel Center to stretch my legs and adjust my clothing for the coming day’s ride. I got a few curious looks when I walked into the store but on the way out, after I changed my clothes, I got some gaping stares and a few heartfelt wolf whistles. I had kept my leather pants but exchanged my t-shirt and jacket for a tight leather tank top and I’d unpinned my hair because the helmet was getting too warm. I wanted the sun in my face, the wind in my hair, and that wild and free feeling of the open road.
I was on the road again and onto my first destination, the palaver with my Domme friends. We met up at a luxury hotel with all the appropriate trimmings: rich, plush furnishings, a huge plasma TV with DVD and surround sound, a private whirlpool spa tub, a balcony overlooking the meditation garden, a five-star gourmet restaurant, a nightclub with daily entertainment, full day spa facilities, and room service. The perfect place for good company and relaxation. I spent a few days there with my girlfriends taking full advantage of all that was offered. We relaxed in the spa, dined at the restaurant, drank and danced at the nightclub while we exchanged stories and session ideas. Then it was on the road again.
I had a few more surprise visits planned which I will tell you about soon!

Hope you enjoyed my little essay đŸ˜‰
Talk to you soon!

Mistress Violet ~ 1-800-574-1830

Sex Toys

I get questions all the time about various different kinds of sex toys and I have written about some previously.
This is a broad term that can encompass everything from lubrication to dildos to vibrators to handcuffs to sex swings. There are quite a variety of toys/tools that people can use to enhance thier own or each other’s sexual pleasure. Wikipedia has a good broad definition for a sex toy. Another site that is has some nice sex toys more specifically geared towards D/s and BDSM is Extreme Restraints. There are several items on Extreme Restraints.com that I either own or want to own in the future although I have yet to purchase anything directly from them. I have been blessed with good slaves that make me exactly what I want to my specifications and, locally, I have an adult store that will special order for me direct from the manufacturers. Except for my favorite “strap-on”, my Feeldoe I purchased online directly from the creators.

Depending on your particular interests, there are different “toys” that I could or would recommend, however, there is one in particular that I think all “phone sex” callers should have “on hand” and that would be KY Silk or Ultra Silk. For the price, it’s worth it whether you’re using it to stroke your cock or to lubricate your ass for toy of some sort. Please note that with any “anal lubrication” you want to steer clear of anything with glycerine in it and the least expensive option is the Ultra or Silk by KY. The orignial KY Jelly does have glycerine in it and it is not meant for the body “internally” but only externally.

If you’re looking for a particular sex toy recommendation or question, leave a comment or send an email to me, Mistress Violet at Violet@SexyMsViolet.com

Talk to you soon … Mistress Violet

Added Shaving/Hair Removal Tip

Just thought that I would add this to what I’d previously wrote about shaving and/or hair removal because of a little sissyslut whose having a few ‘issues’

I have a question about shaving my “nether region”

if I shave every day, it really irritates. How can I have that NOT happen? I notice that you said to shave either every day or every other day I dont get the best shave unless I let it grow out a bit for a few days

In response to this … I had suggested using Nair, but that apparently causes irritation and burning for ‘her’. I then had suggested using a body scrub before shaving, to make sure that the razors were sharp and to use baby oil afterwards. However, another suggestion would be to use the Nair that is made specifically for sensitive areas as it is much, much more mild then regular Nair that women use on the skin of thier legs. What I would suggest trying if your ‘nether regions’ are sensitive would be the Glide-On Bikini Cream
I know for a fact that this product is much milder on the skin having tried it myself. It is recommended to leave on longer, but it is definitely worth it as it’s mild enough not to irritate the skin yet strong enough to rid you of that unwanted hair. I have used the Nair products for so long that I am no longer so sensitive to them and I like being done in less then 5 minutes so I just use regular Nair everywhere.
Enjoy!

Shaving Tips 101

I’ve had a couple of my phone sex pets ask me about shaving. So I thought that I would share with you my personal tips on how I go about shaving myself or shaving one of my pets. And I do enjoy shaving my pets. I find a pet just that much more sexy when smooth.
And I’m sure that you would enjoy my almost completely smooth nether regions, yes?

First thing that you need to realize is that your facial hair, as a man, is much different from your body hair especially in the genital area. As well as your skin texture and sensitivity. Some men have very sensitive facial skin and others do not and the same can be said of men or women when it comes to the ‘nether regions’. So, don’t think that just because you’ve never had irritation or sensitivity on your face that automatically it will be that way down below.
A fantastic website all-around for BDSM and lifestyle information Fetish Information Exchange has a 2 part article on genital shaving that would be beneficial to read over before attempting genital shaving for the very first time on your own. And I would recommend that for the 1st time that you ‘go bare’ down there that you do shaving as opposed to a depilatory or waxing even if you are a Painslut.
My personal routine consists of either shaving every other day or using a depilatory in the summer months so I don’t have to constantly be shaving. I’m going to share with you my routine for shaving because I believe that is the where you want to start and once you get used to it, you may want to try a depilatory if you plan on being bare constantly but if you’re only going bare for certain occasions you may just want to stick to shaving.
I’ve found that there are 4 key things to effective shaving and ‘after care’. First, make sure that your skin is smooth and you’ve removed any dry dead skin that might ‘snag’ or dull your razor. I recommend using a body scrub or body polisher. Personally, I adore Mary Kay products so I either use Satin Hands & Body Body Buffing Cream or Embrace Romance Sugar Scrub, but the sugar scrub is perfumed and can cause skin sensitivity in some people so I would recommend for the first time a non-scented buffing cream.
Secondly, don’t use an electric razor or a straight razor for that matter either! A good double-bladed or, better yet, triple-bladed safety razor works well. Just make sure that it’s a ‘fresh’ razor. You never want to use a razor that you think might be dull because it may shave some of the hair but it will also pull hair out and that can cause skin irritations and ingrown hairs which are uncomfortable and unsightly. Personally, I prefer and regularly use the men’s Mach 3 Vibrating Razor. As safety razors go, it’s given me the best, smoothest, and longest lasting shave to date. Just make sure to replace the blade after at least every couple of shaves depending on how much surface area you are shaving and how much hair you have down there.
Thirdly, use a good shave gel or foam. I have always preferred using one for sensitive skin no matter where I was shaving. The one that I use regularly is Skintimate for Sensitive Skin with Aloe in the green can. The smell is light and I’ve never had any sort of irritation from it and I’ve used it on myself as well as my pets.
Fourth, make sure that you do ‘after care’ which simply involves either using a non-scented body lotion or baby oil. Mary Kay has a great non-scented moisturizing body lotion with the Satin Hands & Body products or just your standard baby oil works well too. Either way, you want to put something on your skin so it doesn’t dry out and to help prevent ingrown hairs. It will also help with potential ‘itchiness’.
Now, after shaving you may experience itching, especially if you only shave once and don’t continue to shave that area on a regular daily or every-other-day basis. So, be prepared for itchiness if you choose to shave once for an occasion but don’t plan on keeping the area bare and smooth.
If you have any other questions that either the Fetish Exchange or I have not answered, leave a comment or send me an email.
I do so enjoy ‘smooth’ pets, delicious!

What is ‘BDSM’?

I am often approached by boys that have no idea what BDSM is or what a ‘Mistress’ or ‘Dominatrix’ is interested in and why. So, I thought that I would address that for those of you who have come to my site to call me on the phone for basic phone sex fucking. There is a basic definition of BDSM here BDSM, take a look.

Cum & Lick My Ass, pet!
Now, just because I am a dominant woman doesn’t mean that I don’t like to fuck, on the contrary, I love to fuck and be fucked! Being a dominant female/Mistress/Dominatrix means different things to different women in my experience. What being a Mistress/Dominatrix means to me … It’s about my pleasure. Pretty simple. There are times that I take great pleasure in teasing a pet to the extreme and then telling him to “fuck me hard”, but you have to first earn that priviledge with me. And if you don’t think that it’s worth it, don’t bother, but just ask any of my pets, I’m well worth the effort!
I am not all about just causing you pain but neither am I all about just ‘getting you off’. I find that a degree of pain will only increase my pleasure and your pleasure. Do you want intensity? Or would you rather have the same old ‘bump & grind’?
Think about it … Let me know.

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