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Finally, I called Todd and invited him over for a sensual domination phone sex session at my dungeon/loft where I had a large exercise mat as well as the tools of my trade. I could tell that he’d psyched himself up to win, but I saw it melt away when he saw what I was wearing and the contents of my dungeon. I had a barely there string bikini top and tight silk hot pants. “What are you waiting for?” I said, breaking his revere. “Are you having second thoughts?”

He stepped onto the mat and I was on him in a flash. First, I needed him secured and then I would get down to the serious sensual domination phone sex. He was surprisingly quick and grabbed my wrists, but I was ready. I slammed my wrists together pinching his thumbs and making him release. As he winced in pain, I got behind him, wrapped my arms around his neck, and climbed on his back. I got him off-balance and he was down on the mat. I had him in a choke hold and quickly wrapped my legs around his waist. He struggled but I clung to him. I could sense his thoughts, ‘Was she right when she said she would win? Could I have so underestimated her?’ As he struggled to breath, I could see his eyes rolling. I had him now! I love guys in bondage!

Mistresss VioletHe came to as I finished securing his ankle. It was over almost as quickly as it began. He tried to put up a good fight, but I know in his heart, he wanted me to defeat him. I could see that he had realized it as well. The look on his face said, ‘My god! How could I have been so stupid, thinking only with my cock…again?’ Now it was time for the slow tease and denial phone sex. He was at my mercy and I wanted to take my time to fully enjoy it. I told him, “You’re my little sex toy now and I’m going to use you as long as I want.”

Tell me, what do you suppose cums next? I’d love to hear your thoughts, so give me a ring for your own, personalized kinky sensual domination session with me!

Mistress Violet

Domination Phone Sex Mistress

Mistress Violet 1-800-571-1830My creative, dirty mind can twist any kind of kinky domination phone sex fantasy you might have in mind. I’m a no taboos lady, so bring me anything your perverted mind can muster up because I have absolutely no limits when it comes to our calls!

Kinky phone sex Mistress call can include almost anything from BDSM, corporal punishment, sissy training, CBT, tease and denial, guided masturbation and so much more. I’ve had a lot of experience with all sorts of fantasies and fetishes. Let me tease you a bit with a kinky, little erotic story to wet your whistle.

I met Todd at the party of a mutual friend. My first impression of him was that he was a bit of a wimp. I frequently speak my mind, so I said, “You don’t work out much, do you? If you did, you’d look great. Right now, I bet that even I could take you.” By the conflicting emotions that flitted over his face, I could tell he didn’t know what to think. Maybe he thought that I was crazy or grandstanding because he managed to stammer back, “Oh yeah? What’s the stakes for this bet?”

Mistress Violet 1-800-574-1830Even though he stammered, I was impressed that he managed a comeback. I slowly eyed him up and down and said, “How’s sensual domination phone sex session grab you? If I win, I get to do anything with you that I want. If you win, you can do anything you want with me.” When he didn’t reply, I said, “Look, I’m not too much of a sadist. I won’t hurt you, but maybe a little ‘slap & tickle’. I only want to defeat you, restrain you, and strip you naked so I can get a look at that wimpy little body of yours.’Oh there it was, the look of male ego and overconfidence. I could almost read his thoughts, “Does this chick really think she can take me? I got her beat. This is too good an offer to refuse!’ Then the last glimpse that he tried to hide, but I could clearly see his arousal at wrestling with a woman, being overpowered, and at her mercy.

Of course, he took my challenge as it was a win-win situation for him no matter what the outcome. We didn’t go at it right there at the party, but the stage was set. I didn’t want to public but only private humiliation. I let him sweat it a bit, giving him time to think about it; fantasize.

Want to hear more … check back in a few and read the rest!

Mistress Violet

Happy Holidays from Your Phone Sex Mistress!

tease-and-denialHere’s your Phone Sex Mistress wishing all you bad boys a happy holiday season! I’m going to be away through the end of the year and I know you’ll be missing me. To tide you over thru the end of the year, take the time to read the Christmas erotic story I wrote a few years ago on this blog.

Here’s a little preview..

Chime go the bells! Tis the season to be jolly .. fa la la la fuck. All this contrived holiday joy just masks the incessant hustle, bustle, and frantic scrambling to and fro for just that perfect gift for that special some one, bah. These were Violet’s thoughts as she watched all the superficially “jolly” folk scamper about shopping at the mall. The Christmas cheer is all well and good for those whose innocence is still as pure as the driven snow, but for Mistress Violet, that fake sheen of innocence was as long gone as her girlish hopes and dreams, her belief in fairy tales or the mystery of magic. Now, she lived in the shadows at the edge of the abyss as the object of the dark desires of all male hearts.

Take this link, A Christmas Story, to read the rest of the beginning. Or you can use the search bar, but make sure not to skip to the end or you’ll miss all the fun!

Look for me next year!

Mistress Violet

Fetish Phone Sex

06As a Dominatrix/Mistress, I have a great deal of experience with a variety of Fetish Phone Sex and sexual practices. Some of these fetishes are more “mainstream” and others are not so widely practiced. A particular “fetish” that is more “mainstream” but also has many variations is Exhibitionism.

Wikipedia defines Exhibitionism as:

Exhibitionism, known variously as flashing, apodysophilia and Lady Godiva syndrome, [1] is the psychological need and pattern of behavior to exhibit naked parts of the body to another person with a tendency toward an extravagant, usually at least partially sexually inspired behavior to captivate the attention of another in an open display of bare “private parts”  i.e., parts of the human body which would otherwise be left covered under clothing in nearly all other cultural circumstances.”

Go here for Wikipedia’s full definition of Exhibitionism.

Many deviant fetish practices are about an additional adrenaline rush or thrill. Exhibitionism is about the thrill of either possibly being seen or purposefully being seen by one or more people, usually strangers. Now, I’m not talking about exposing one’s self at a public sporting event or concert when you’re drunk and carousing. For most people, that type of “flashing” is a one time experience while under the influence, but if the experience is sexually thrilling it can lead to the desire to be seen naked masturbating or to be seen in flagrante delicto.

The “flip side” of Exhibitionism is Voyeurism. Wikipedia defines Voyeurism as:

Voyeurism is a practice in which an individual derives sexual pleasure from observing other people. Such people may be engaged in sexual acts, or be nude or in underwear, or dressed in whatever other way the “voyeur” finds appealing.”

For more on Voyeurism.

When it comes to Voyeurism there are a variety as well. For some it is as simple as looking through a “Playboy” or watching a video. Then there are those men that like to go to the strip clubs or fetish clubs to watch the action. For others, it can get more complex. For instance, a married man who would like to see his wife with other men; specifically other men that are well endowed. This type of voyeurism can lead to cuckolding where men either accept that their wife “steps out” on them or even encourages them to have extramarital affairs. Then either asks the wife to tell him about it or asks to be able to be there and watch/participate in the act. And still others that want to observe people in their most intimate moments undetected as in what’s been called “a peeping tom” which is illegal and serious invasion of privacy.

I find that when it comes to this Phone Sex Fetish, most people can be a little bit of both but tend to lean one way or the other in varying degrees. Some people want to be seen and other people prefer to watch. Sometimes it can all hinge on their self-esteem and/or confidence level and other times it’s all a matter of what turns them on.

What turns you on? Do you want to watch or do you want to be watched? I like to watch, so if you’re an exhibitionist, I’d be more than happy to be your voyeur…just give me a call!

Mistress Violet

Phone Sex Mistress Update

Sexy Ms Violet 1*800*574*1830Well, your Phone Sex Mistress had a nice, quiet, and relaxing New Year’s ever this year. I just kicked back and had a night all to myself with a good bottle of wine, some delicious shrimp scampi and soothing jazz on the stereo. The only thing that might’ve made it just a touch better would’ve been if Santa had dropped off a sexy submissive slut to feed me the shrimp.

However, as fate would have it … a gift for your Phone Sex Mistress arrived New Year’s day. Can you imagine my surprise when my doorbell rang  and on my front porch stood a very sexy, young man dressed in a white t-shirt and tight jeans with a bow around his neck, lovely! I’d never met him before but he was so deliciously cute with that bow, I couldn’t resist! Now, I’m sure it was a little gift from one of my friends but the tag attached to the bow read, “To: Mistress Violet to celebrate 2014” and no matter how much I spanked, flogged , or whipped the sexy little present he never told me either. Such stamina, he almost wore me right out. It’s a good thing that he was excellent at massage and had a naughty little tongue. I couldn’t help but reward him, he took one hell of a ‘lickin’ and begged for more.

What more could a Domme ask for except maybe more toys from my favorite store?!? ExtremeRestraints.com Take a look at some of the fun toys they have to use on naughty little sluts! I just love their floggers and paddles for some serious Spanking Phone Sex. Also, I wouldn’t mind some new bondage furniture either!

Mistress Violet

A Question for Your Phone Sex Mistress

Watching you!

Mistress Violet ~ 1-800-574-1830


Interesting question from a submissive for a Phone Sex Mistress

Mistress Violet,

Hello. I read some of your blog. I loved reading about “figging” and would love to experience it sometime. I have a question for you. Have you ever heard of a Mistress using jalapeno or habanero peppers on a sub’s ass (“pussy”)? If so, do you recommend it?

Hello pet, as a Phone Sex Mistress, I have heard of a lot of different activities and am experienced in almost as many. I have heard of using jalapeno or habenero peppers on a submissive’s ass or rubbing the pepper on an anal plug intended for the sub’s ass. I have also heard of using the seeds that are in either type of pepper for urethra insertions.

As for this Phone Sex Mistress, these activities are not something I am willing to do with an inexperienced submissive over the phone. I would try it with a sub that has experience with figging, at least, and even then I don’t believe that I would recommend using a seed as a urethra insertion because it seems too risky.

I would most likely use the pepper to lubricate an anal plug as opposed to ‘peeling a pepper’ and inserting the pepper itself into a sub’s anus. Unlike ginger root which is a fibrous root, peppers are hollow and ‘flimsy’ for lack of a better term and I think that could raise issues and it’s not something that I would want to ‘dig out’ of a sub’s ass. As for some sort of urethra insertion, I wouldn’t be opposed to doing something like a Q-tip dipped in jalapeno juice, but not the seed. Using a seed just seems a little too dangerous.

Hope that answers your question, pet. I look forward to a fun-filled anal figging session with you and then perhaps a ‘peppering’ as well.

Ms Violet

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Blogtastic Phone Sex Divas

Blogs are “the hot thing” right now and I have to admit that I like writing to all my naughty little sluts here on SexyMsViolet.com I know that many of you check my site at least once a week to find out what I’ve been doing or if you’re lucky, to read about yourself. For a lot of you naughty sluts, it’s a great big turn-on to see your sessions here in print!
So, I wanted to tell you about a new blog site that some of my sexy girlfriends are writing on together, BlogtasticPhoneSexDivas.com! Check it out and let me know what you think about all of their hot phone sex escapades! I know that I’ll be looking at least once a week and you never know, you might just see something about me or you there too!
Mistress Violet

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Spammers Resorting to Joke Comments?

Spam in our email boxes are a “given”. For those of us who write blogs, it’s becoming a “given” that once your blog gets enough traffic, the spamming will commence. I have to clear out at least 50+ spam comments daily with a plethora of nasty links. Some of these spam comments aren’t even in English. What a pain in the proverbial ass! Although, recently, I received a spam comment that contained no links and interestingly enough, a joke. Not only was it a joke but a good joke. How did I know it was spam? Well, I’m not positive but why would he, the spammer, post this as a comment on a Special from way back in January of 2007?
Here it is … Enjoy a good laugh … I know that I did!

There was this guy see.
He wasn’t very bright and he reached his adult life without ever having learned “the facts”.
Somehow, it gets to be his wedding day.
While he is walking down the isle, his father tugs his sleeve and says,

“Son, when you get to the hotel room…Call me”

Hours later he gets to the hotel room with his beautiful blushing bride and he calls his father,

“Dad, we are the hotel, what do I do?”

“O.K. Son, listen up, take off your clothes and get in the bed, then she should take off her clothes and get in the bed, if not help her. Then either way, ah, call me”

A few moments later…

“Dad we took off our clothes and we are in the bed, what do I do?”

O.K. Son, listen up. Move real close to her and she should move real close to you, and then… Ah, call me.”

A few moments later…


“O.K. Son, Listen up, this is the most important part. Stick the long part of your body into the place where she goes to the bathroom.”

A few moments later…

“Dad, I’ve got my foot in the toilet, what do I do?”

Thanks for the joke “ANNUATAADDIND” LOL!

Mistress Violet

Super Bitch Mistress for Phone Sex Series 4

And the sacred saga continues …

[12:22] IronManCockStroker: gotta love how that predcum feels though 🙂

[12:22] Super Bitch Mistress: oh but that’s a cock’s most important job … you may not like that idea .. but he’ll understand what I’m saying ..

[12:23] Super Bitch Mistress: that all this puking isn’t for naught

[12:23] Super Bitch Mistress: that it’s his job to exercise like this so ultimately .. when he gets the ‘ok’ from the ‘big head’ .. that he can efficiently complete his most sacred and important mission in his little life

[12:23] Super Bitch Mistress: lmao

[12:24] IronManCockStroker: lol

[12:24] IronManCockStroker: its all just excercise til then

[12:24] Super Bitch Mistress: indeed

[12:24] Super Bitch Mistress: he’s getting in peak performance shape so when the time comes .. he’ll be able to do it .. and do it to the best of his ability

[12:25] IronManCockStroker: who knew exercise and bulimia could feel so good

[12:25] Super Bitch Mistress: Indeed

[12:25] IronManCockStroker: 😀

[12:25] IronManCockStroker: and it does feel good

[12:25] Super Bitch Mistress: yes it does

[12:26] IronManCockStroker: 🙂

[12:26] IronManCockStroker: the precum won’t stop leakin’

[12:26] Super Bitch Mistress: he’s doing his best

[12:27] IronManCockStroker: thank You Mistress

[12:27] IronManCockStroker: he tries his best for You

[12:27] IronManCockStroker: sure is makin’ the head good and slick though 🙂

[12:28] Super Bitch Mistress: and swollen too, yes?

[12:28] IronManCockStroker: You know him well Mistress 🙂

[12:29] Super Bitch Mistress: Indeed

[12:29] Super Bitch Mistress: we have a very close special relationship

[12:29] Super Bitch Mistress: you should know that

[12:29] Super Bitch Mistress: he’s mine after all 😉

[12:29] IronManCockStroker: yes…Your cock loves You

[12:29] IronManCockStroker: loves it when You tell him what to do

[12:30] Super Bitch Mistress: but of course

[12:30] IronManCockStroker: 🙂

[12:31] IronManCockStroker: do you request more of him Mistress??

[12:32] Super Bitch Mistress: well, it would be nice for him & Me if he puked up that evil ..


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