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Orgasm Control & Your Phone Sex Mistress

This is in response to a comment from kelly on Orgasm Control that was posted on the Chastity, Tease & Denial and Milking post.Single

My girl friend is so hot and sexy when she gets close to cumming she is very vocal and moves extra sexy and then she makes me cum before she gets to cum and this is not good.
I get in REALLY big trouble.
What techniques can I learn to stop this and what can she do to make me last longer for HER. Most of the time I can hold out but I want it to be all the time I can hold it and cum when she says. Can you please help me? She is everything to me and my job is whatever she gives me and to make her cum ALWAYS. Please, please and sugar on top. thank you

Well, the way that Your Phone Sex Mistress is most familiar with in prolonging ejaculation is more of a “hands on” method that I don’t think would work too well for you during intercourse where the tip or base of the penis is ‘pinched’ right before ejaculation hence preventing ejaculation and most times retaining the erection. However, I did read this article that discussed this method as well as another method that could work for you, if you’re willing to work at it. This is “phase 1” of the second method mentioned.

Men and women have a muscle called the pubococcygeus, or PC. It’s the one men (and women, too) can use to stop peeing when the police catch them using the alley after they’ve had too much beer. When a man has an erection, he can use the same muscle to make Mr. Willy bounce up and down like a puppet show. (A jaunty, high-pitched “Hello!” adds to the effect.) To become multiply orgasmic, this muscle has to be trained. Men can literally lift weights with it by giving themselves an erection and hanging a towel over the end and trying to lift the towel.

And now something that you naughty little “tease & denial phone sex” boys will love . . . “phase 2”

Masturbation. A lot of it. But unlike those days when he was 13 and the goal was to finish as quickly as possible before his sister needed the bathroom, he should go slowly and try to reach a peak so he feels the beginnings of the trembles. Then he should stop immediately . . . When the feeling has passed, he can resume masturbating and try it again. The goal is to distinguish between the orgasm phase and the ejaculation phase which, he may be surprised to learn, are two different things. Typically, ejaculation follows orgasm by a second or two, though in the heat of battle they seem one in the same.

If you would like to read the full article check out Prolonging Pleasure

Now, this isn’t a method that I have used with anybody unless you count practicing ‘tease & denial’ working on prolonging ejaculation, so I’m not sure how well it will work, but give it a try and let me know. I’m curious to see how well it will work for you. Another recommendation would be to utilize a cock ring during intercourse. Just be careful that it isn’t so tight that it cuts of circulation. I wouldn’t recommend chastity for you because I believe that it would only exacerbate your current situation.

I have to say that you’re on the right path in wanting to do whatever you can to please your girlfriend and I’m sure that she will encourage you in this pursuit. Good luck and keep me informed about whether or not this method does in fact increase your stamina and help to prolong/prevent your ejaculation.

Mistress Violet  1-800-574-1830

Guided Masturbation Phone Sex

One of my favorite activities has to be “tease and denial” coupled with Guided Masturbation Phone Sex. I have to say that the results can be explosive. I have one particular little pet that is a fiend for guided masturbation and lately, I have decided to incorporate some tease and denial into our sessions.

“MS” is actually a naughty boy that still happens to be a virgin. How novel and delightful! Of course, as his Mistress, I am in control of his cock, my cock actually. Our initial sessions centered around Guided Masturbation Phone Sex and various different stroking methods. Now, I’ve taken a slightly different tack with “MS”. Before our last session, I gave him a little assignment. I had instructed him to stroke a specified way without lubrication every hour on the hour for only 5-10 minutes and not to cum. I told him that if he came, then it was over and there would be punishment. Also, while he stroked he was to either be looking at pictures of me or watching some sort of porn. Then, if he’d been a ‘good boy’ and not cum yet, I would allow him to call me and stroke for me.


As it turned out, “MS” was a ‘good boy’, so I allowed him to call me. He admitted that he was incredibly turned on by his assignment (the duration was over the course of approximately 4 hours) and confessed that he’d gotten extremely close to cumming that last hour, but he’d managed not to cum. What a good little slutty boy! Since his cock was already ‘rock hard’ and oozing pre-cum, I knew that I was going to have some fun. I started him out massaging his balls and rubbing on the tip of his cock which I know is highly stimulating to him. Then, I had him stroke the length of the shaft with his left hand while he rubbed his thumb of his right hand back and forth across the tip. To add to his anxiety, I told him to get his cock really wet and slick with his lube, KY Warming Liquid. (I recommend KY Silk or KY Warming for lubrication being that the “Silk” doesn’t contain glycerine so it’s good for lubrication of the cock, vagina, or ass.) Well, that certainly ‘heated’ things up and soon he was ready to explode, however, I was not ready to let him. So, I had him switch his left had back to massaging his balls and instructed him to place the palm of his right hand on the tip of his cock and just press down in a circular motion slowly. Oh, how I delighted in his moaning, “God, that feels so good Mistress!”

When I was satisfied that he couldn’t take more, I told him to apply more lube and stroke rapidly up and down with his left hand on the bottom, right hand on the top in a full grip but with the thumb of his right hand closed so that when he went all the way down on his shaft the tip would be pressed hard against his thumb. He managed to stroke rapidly like this for the final 5 minutes of our session until his cock exploded. Of course, I encouraged him to continue to pump until his balls were drained. So much fun!

Think that you could satisfy me like that? Hhhmm, give me a call  for Guide Masturbation Phone Sex and we’ll see, perhaps!? Maybe if you’re a good little slut like “MS”, I will allow you to lick yourself off me?!?

Mistress Violet


Sensual Domination Phone Sex

Violet7Are you interested in Sensual Domination Phone Sex? Have you ever considered chastity and prostate milking? I’ve been asked by several submissives if I believe in and practice chastity and milking. Yes, I do believe in chastity and milking. I absolutely adore controlling a man’s cock, sexual urges, and orgasm. Men are such absolute sluts. I have adored teasing boys/men for as long as I can remember. One of my favorite ways to ‘tease’ is orally. I love to get a man to almost the point of cumming and then back it down. And that practice goes ‘hand in hand’ with chastity and milking.

For this type of Sensual Domination Phone Sex, I firmly believe that I should be in control of your orgasms and whether or not they are pleasurable or not. How I exert that control is through chastity. Now, if a submissive is obedient then a Chastity Device isn’t necessary all the time. However, during initial training, I prefer to use one. My favorites for day in, day out usage are either CB-3000 or The Curve. However, I do enjoy putting a little slut in this one, Locking Chastity Belt with Plug, when having them do “housework” or to show them off at parties, if they’ve been good. LOL

Now when it comes to Sensual Domination Phone Sex that includes milking … I prefer a “hands on” approach, however there is a very good tool that can be utilized even by the submissive himself. That tool would be The Aneros G-Spot Stimulator. The ad for this tool says that it can produce quite an intense orgasm and that is true, however, if used while in a cock-cage, like the CB-3000, well, a submissive can’t exactly get “erect” in that so, it’s more of a “pain/pleasure” sort of situation and it can be quite humiliating for a man, especially the 1st time, to cum with a flaccid penis! LOL I do enjoy that moment so very much because it prepares him for the strap-on training that I enjoy. I love getting a little slut to the point where I can fuck him in his cage until he cums!
But back to Milking … I also think that it’s only right that he consume his own cum. So, as I’d stated earlier, I prefer a more personal ritual that includes me using my fingers to anally stimulate while he holds or positions his cock into a cup or bowl so that he can then eat up his cum for me as proof of his obedience to me and to really show what an utter slut he is as well.

Chastity, milking, and tease & denial are practices that I find standard for any submissive/slave of mine. I fully expect a sub of mine not to cum without my express consent. And I do not expect him to cum in any other way then the way I direct. However, I am not cruel, hardly, I do enjoy allowing my pets enjoyable orgasms. If a sub is good and obedient, well then there is a world of possibilities available to him and of course, obeying me insures that my pets will experience intense orgasms when they’re allowed to enjoy their orgasm.

Hope that answers some of your questions, but if you have a more specific question, I welcome your comment here and I will address that specifically.

Also, a good site to look at in relation to Chastity & Milking is this site Chastity

Talk to you soon, pets!

Mistress Violet

Guided Masturbation Phone Sex

Violet23I have little pets that love Guided Masturbation Phone Sex sessions with me. I love to tell them precisely how to stroke their cocks. Actually, it’s more of a situation where I allow them to stroke “my cock”, LOL!

Guided Masturbation Phone Sex sessions are quite sensual and erotic. I do love to have boys get all naked for me and stroke it! There’s this ‘rush’ being completely clothed having a boy completely naked and begging to stroke his/my cock in front of me. The ‘wicked’ comes out in me when I notice him getting close to orgasm and then have him either stop or change up his stroke breaking his concentration therefore delaying his orgasm. That’s what we call orgasm control. For even a little more pleasure, I have them use different substances for lubrication including ice, warming lotion, ginger-infused oil, or even toothpaste.

There are some basic grips to stroke that are listed on JackinWorld. And there are several different types of  cock stroking, I have noticed. The techniques that have most benefited me, I learned when first reading SM 101 by Jay Wiseman which is a ‘must have’ book for those new to D/s and BDSM. Also, there are several different stroking variations listed on JackinExpert that you may or may not find informative and/or stimulating.

So, with my little Guided Masturbation Phone Sex pet, “MS”, I talk him through just exactly how I want him to touch himself for me. It’s always pleasurable for both of us especially when he fires up his webcam and uses his Fleshlight. He’s becoming quite the slutty boy for me and very soon I’ll be exploring how anal stimulation will really turn him into my slave! Too much fun!
Talk to all you naughty boys soon!

Mistress Violet

Guided Masturbation Phone Sex

So, a new IronMan Cockstroker cometh for Guided Masturbation Phone Sex. MH and I have started his training. I’ve got him practicing a couple of basic stroking techniques and we’re doing a little circuit training as well.

The next step, we’re working on with our Guided Masturbation Phone Sex sessions is Orgasm Control. I like to have my boys make ‘my’ cock cum on command. So far, MH is doing well at holding-off his orgasm until I’m ready for him to cum, but I want him to build up his stroking stamina as well.

One of the most entertaining things for me in Guided Masturbation Phone Sex, and for my boys, is increased intensity of the orgasm when I finally let them cum. MH is realizing that the longer we prolong his orgasm, the stronger his orgasm becomes. Are you ready to become the next IronMan Cockstroker, MH?!?

Mistress Violet

2 Girl Phone Sex

Are you looking for a kinky 2 Girl Phone Sex session? Look no further because you’ve found it! I’m Mistress Violet, a wicked Dominatrix and here’s one of my sexy girlfriends, Alicia! We had a particularly fun time the other night with MH.

I own MH’s cock and he can only cum with my permission. That’s called Orgasm Control and I love to be in control! Alicia is a good cocksucker and we had a lot of fun doing Tease and Denial Phone Sex with MH. At first, I let her tease his cock, but soon I was pushing her head down on it and really making her take it.

Soon, I got out my toys for some Strap-On Phone Sex on MH’s tight ass while Alicia was fucking his cock with her throat. We were working him over really good, but I still wouldn’t let him cum, at least, not yet. I love to have a little slut like MH beg to cum. When MH started begging to cum and Alicia was begging for his cum, I decided it was time.

Are you looking to have a good time with two sexy women? Are you looking for a Domme and a sub or would you like two Dominant women to really work you over good? Alicia loves to play both ways! Give us a call and get just what you deserve!

Mistress Violet   1-800-574-1830

Alicia   1-866-846-5050

Sensual Domination Phone Sex

Do you need a strong, assertive woman to take control of you in the bedroom? If yes, then you’re looking for a woman like me that is into Sensual Domination Phone Sex. Why don’t we start with one of my favorite activities, Guided Masturbation Phone Sex. I have several stroking techniques that I want to walk you through. Let’s figure out which stroke drives you crazy.

If you have a webcam, I would love to see what you’ve got! Doesn’t the idea of me watching your stroke your cock really turn you on? I know that it’s a turn-on for me. If you don’t have a webcam, that’s okay because I have a wickedly creative imagination. I can set the scene for us to play. We can do anything and everything from strict instruction to a creative fantasy.

Maybe your favorite part of masturbation is not the actual orgasm but the pleasure in the stroking. If that is you want, then let’s add-in some Orgasm Control Phone Sex to prolong your ejaculation. I have a variety of ways from certain ways to stroke to cock bondage that prolong your orgasm.

Call Mistress Violet @ 1-800-574-1830

Guided Masturbation Phone Sex

I love to tell you exactly how I want you to stroke your cock for me. It’s called Guided Masturbation Phone Sex and it’s a very fun and intimate form of Sensual Domination Phone Sex. I know a variety of stroking techniques and I will walk you through each and every one of them. I know that it’s a turn-on for you to give over control of your cock to me.

There is strict Guided Masturbation where I walk you through various strokes using 1 or 2 hands. Also, Guided Masturbation with Sensual Imagery where we can do a Role Play like you’re actually my slave and stroking right in front of me. As our sessions progress, we can do what’s called ‘Circuit Training’ to build up your ‘stroking stamina’ and prolong your orgasm. We could got another direction and work on multiple orgasms by continuing to stroke through your first and perhaps, even your second orgasm. So, you see, there are a variety of ways to go with Guided Masturbation and all of them include Orgasm Control Phone Sex.

As a bonus, I will watch you stroke for me on webcam as well. I love to see my cocks on display and it insures that you’re following my instructions ‘to the letter’. So, if you’re looking for the best in Guided Masturbation …

Call Mistress Violet at 1-800-574-1830!

PS. Here’s a little ‘shout out’ for a few new, up-and-coming Cockstrokers … SM & JL! Let’s see if you can break some stroking records! For more about my personalized Guided Masturbation sessions, read about Ironman Cockstroker here on my blog.

Guided Masturbation Phone Sex

As a Mistress, I love to be in control and there’s nothing better than controlling a man’s cock and orgasm via Guided Masturbation Phone Sex.  It’s one of my favorite types of Sensual Domination Phone Sex calls. I know a variety of ways that I will have you stroke for me. Just ask the Ironman Cockstroker! We do a variety of strokes and circuit training too for maximum Orgasm Control! I will take you to the edge of your limits and beyond.

Do you have a webcam? I love to watch! Sure, I’m a voyeur, aren’t you? If you could be right in front of me, on your knees,  and stroking at my command, wouldn’t you love it if I joined you so you could see me play with my tight, wet pussy?

Let’s test your limits of endurance and see about achieving an explosive orgasm! Are you up for the challenge?!

Call Mistress Violet for the best in Guided Masturbation Phone Sex and Orgasm Control!


Pushing Limits!

Now he wants to play some more … SHOULD I OR SHOULDN’T I LET HIM CUM TONIGHT???

Always looking to be teased, tormented, pushed, and helpless!
Then have him bring his webcam along for a COCKSUCKING, CUMSLUT WEBCAM SHOW!

Or maybe I should have him down a 1/2 bottle of barcadi and go to the park again in front of his headlights?
And TAKE PICTURES with his phone! LOL

orkut graphics, glitters, tricks, games and comments

Amazing Mistress Violet for Domination Phone Sex

Amazing Mistress Violet by K ~ Mistress Violet’s Exhibitionist Slut-Bitch

I have been a phone sex junkie for the better part of 10 years or so and in that time, as one might imagine, I have talked to a great many different people from the random 800# and getting whoever is available to searching the internet for that right combination. Then about 2 years ago, I discovered Mistress Violet and haven’t been anywhere else since. She is truly amazing! imaginative! trustworthy! devious! and patient!
Mistress Violet has all of the obvious skills but Her imagination and creativity are incredible. One of my fetishes is forced exhibitionism and as you might imagine that can be quite difficult to do over the phone but Mistress Violet came up with the idea of hooking up my web cam and watching me to make sure I follow Her directions to a tee from having me kneel at the front door wearing a blindfold to having me walk out that very same front door and stroke and cum right there on the front porch. No more faking it and pretending to go out! I had to do as I was told or face the consequences. She also used that imagination to come up with the idea of taking my picture using a screen shot of her computer while watching my web cam. So as you can see, Her imagination and creativity are wonderful.
Two of the most important qualities She has are that She is VERY trustworthy and incredibly devious! I am not into the usual phone sex chat back and forth and pretending. I prefer it be as real as possible and to that end, I have had to share some very sensitive information with Mistress Violet. You see, forced exhibitionism isn’t that easy over the phone so it becomes a bit of a “fantasy blackmail” game and in order to do that well, She needs information. She knows where I work, my office phone number, my cell #, my wife’s cell # & work #, my ex-girlfriend’s cell #, my e-mail address and my home address as well as all of my deepest, darkest secrets and desires and She has used every bit of it! She’s used it to get me to obey. She’s called my wife at work, my ex-girlfriend, and posted all of my information on Her site including pictures. All is done to force me to do exactly as I am told. The calls to my wife were very short and did not reveal any information much like the calls to my ex-girlfriend but then she didn’t need to reveal any information. The mere fact that Mistress Violet would actually call them was more than motivation enough to do as I am told. I’m telling you all of this to show you just how trustworthy She really is. In all of this time, Mistress Violet has never once betrayed me or put me in a situation that endangered my home or work life in any way.
Lastly, but most certainly not the least, is Her patience. I am for the most part, very shy and cautious. I am a whiner (I’m sure is what She would say) and I worry a great deal and can often be VERY needy. I crave attention and She has more than given it to me. Mistress Violet has been there for me thru thick and thin. She has been there for more than just phone sex. She has talked with me about my life and issues I have encountered. She has given me an amazing amount of help in these past couple of years. So, not only has Mistress Violet been able to quench my desire for fetish phone sex, She has also been there to give Her opinion and insight.
In closing, Mistress Violet is a Hardcore Bitch of a Mistress, but she’s also a sensitive, imaginative, and trustworthy friend that has pushed and stretched my limits at just the right pace. So, if You are reading this wondering if Mistress Violet is right for you, the answer is YES! Regardless of Your need or desire Mistress Violet has the answer!

Bad Boy Office Slut – Domination Phone Sex

It’s after-hours, you’re in your office and you decide to be a naughty boy. You get caught by your secretary with your pants down and a dildo pointed at your ass crack. Who would’ve thought that a ‘high-powered’ executive like you has fantasies about being a woman’s little sissy slut or bitch boy! Perfect!
I muffle a low chuckle at your obvious embarrassment and stroll right into your office. You start to scramble to cover yourself, but I’m quick to stop you by grabbing that dildo and pressing up against you bitch-ass. I push a hand on your back, pressing you down hard, and lean over you to whisper in your ear, “So, you’re a closet sissy slut that wants to be fucked?” and you manage a murmur to the affirmative. I tell you to stay completely still or else I will be forced to tell the whole office your secret. You’re scared, humiliated, but more turned-on than ever now.
I know that you’re watching me over your shoulder as I slowly unbutton my blouse, unzip my skirt, and lay them both over the back of the chair. I’m standing there in this sexy black bra, garters, stockings, and heels without any panties. I hand you the dildo and tell you to start fucking yourself like a good little slut. Your eyes bulge when I slip up onto the back of your leather couch, spread my legs, and slide my fingers down to massage my perfectly smooth pussy.
“Now, fuck yourself! And if you entertain me enough tonight, maybe tomorrow night, I will fuck you!”
You begin to furiously fuck your ass, moaning, groaning, and begging to cum. I won’t let you until I’m done. My pussy is right there, all pink and wet. You start to beg me to cum and that’s what I was waiting to hear. I cum squirting all over. I tell you to cum over and clean up the mess, but not to stop fucking your bitch ass. You’re my office slut now and once it’s all cleaned up, I’ll let you cum!

Mistress Violet
PS. Thank you Mark, my little slut who likes to play during work hours in his office, for the inspiration!

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