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Mistress Violet 1-800-571-1830My creative, dirty mind can twist any kind of kinky domination phone sex fantasy you might have in mind. I’m a no taboos lady, so bring me anything your perverted mind can muster up because I have absolutely no limits when it comes to our calls!

Kinky phone sex Mistress call can include almost anything from BDSM, corporal punishment, sissy training, CBT, tease and denial, guided masturbation and so much more. I’ve had a lot of experience with all sorts of fantasies and fetishes. Let me tease you a bit with a kinky, little erotic story to wet your whistle.

I met Todd at the party of a mutual friend. My first impression of him was that he was a bit of a wimp. I frequently speak my mind, so I said, “You don’t work out much, do you? If you did, you’d look great. Right now, I bet that even I could take you.” By the conflicting emotions that flitted over his face, I could tell he didn’t know what to think. Maybe he thought that I was crazy or grandstanding because he managed to stammer back, “Oh yeah? What’s the stakes for this bet?”

Mistress Violet 1-800-574-1830Even though he stammered, I was impressed that he managed a comeback. I slowly eyed him up and down and said, “How’s sensual domination phone sex session grab you? If I win, I get to do anything with you that I want. If you win, you can do anything you want with me.” When he didn’t reply, I said, “Look, I’m not too much of a sadist. I won’t hurt you, but maybe a little ‘slap & tickle’. I only want to defeat you, restrain you, and strip you naked so I can get a look at that wimpy little body of yours.’Oh there it was, the look of male ego and overconfidence. I could almost read his thoughts, “Does this chick really think she can take me? I got her beat. This is too good an offer to refuse!’ Then the last glimpse that he tried to hide, but I could clearly see his arousal at wrestling with a woman, being overpowered, and at her mercy.

Of course, he took my challenge as it was a win-win situation for him no matter what the outcome. We didn’t go at it right there at the party, but the stage was set. I didn’t want to public but only private humiliation. I let him sweat it a bit, giving him time to think about it; fantasize.

Want to hear more … check back in a few and read the rest!

Mistress Violet
1-800-574-1830

Happy Holidays from Your Phone Sex Mistress!

tease-and-denialHere’s your Phone Sex Mistress wishing all you bad boys a happy holiday season! I’m going to be away through the end of the year and I know you’ll be missing me. To tide you over thru the end of the year, take the time to read the Christmas erotic story I wrote a few years ago on this blog.

Here’s a little preview..

Chime go the bells! Tis the season to be jolly .. fa la la la fuck. All this contrived holiday joy just masks the incessant hustle, bustle, and frantic scrambling to and fro for just that perfect gift for that special some one, bah. These were Violet’s thoughts as she watched all the superficially “jolly” folk scamper about shopping at the mall. The Christmas cheer is all well and good for those whose innocence is still as pure as the driven snow, but for Mistress Violet, that fake sheen of innocence was as long gone as her girlish hopes and dreams, her belief in fairy tales or the mystery of magic. Now, she lived in the shadows at the edge of the abyss as the object of the dark desires of all male hearts.

Take this link, A Christmas Story, to read the rest of the beginning. Or you can use the search bar, but make sure not to skip to the end or you’ll miss all the fun!

Look for me next year!

Mistress Violet
1-800-574-1830

Mistress Phone Sex and Pushing Limits

In my experience as a Phone Sex Mistress, one of the greatest gifts that a submissive gives to his/her Dominant is unwavering trust. I have heard countless stories from submissive men about that trust being abused on occasions where the sub was used way beyond their limits. Situations where they were beaten beyond sub-space or forced into situations that went beyond erotic into a scary nightmarish actuality. Don’t get me wrong, I believe in pushing limits, but I think that many Dominants can push too hard, too fast. The gift of trust is only the beginning. Nobody, submissive or otherwise, can have enough “blind trust” right from the start to be able to be completely and utterly submissive in the very first session. It takes time to build a good, trusting bond between Domme and sub. I have this sort of bond with many of my phone sex submissives as well as all of my past ‘live’ submissives.

Ms Violet 1*800*574*1830I have been K’s Phone Sex Mistress for a very long time. K is an exhibitionist & cumslut. We spent a long time building our relationship and that trust because we not only talk ‘fantasy’, but there is some ‘reality’ in there as well. A good ‘fantasy’ that we talk about is one where I take him out to a fetish club naked on a leash connected to a cock & ball harness. Once at the club, I have him perform on stage for the group in a variety of different ways. It is exciting and erotic for both of us to talk about this sort of scene and how it would play out, what I would make him do, and how all of it excites him, however, it’s not something that can actually be “done” via the phone. Another ‘fantasy’ that we talk of is where I kidnap him and his wife and make them cumsluts for a fetish party .. that was a particularly hot one .. LOL!

The reality part of our calls is a little more tricky because these are things that he is actually doing for me at my command and there has to be a certain amount of caution. There are many things to take into account when having somebody do something for you that is a long distance away from your personal physical control. The main concern for me is one of safety and legality. Something that is relatively simple and I’m sure many men have done without prompting, but could have dire consequences for him if he was “caught”, would be having him unzip his pants whilst driving to expose his cock and stroke. Now, as long as he’s got one hand on the wheel and is driving well, there is no problem, however, if he were to get pulled over by a police officer and wasn’t able to zip up quick enough, he’d be in a world of hurt. Other times in the dead, middle of the night when most people are a sleep, I’ve had him go out into his back or front yard completely naked and stroke his cock for me which excites him almost beyond reason. Once again, this is something that is only undertaken in certain circumstances where the possibility that he would be actually seen by another person is almost zero. These reality activities are the most exciting and thrilling for both of us, but they are the ones that we’ve had to slowly build on because of the potential ‘reality’ consequences if something went wrong.

I am very proud of the relationship that K and I have built. Even in the throes of excitement, he’s usually able to keep his “top head” enough so as to not lose complete control in his environment which is necessary when doing the reality assignments. It would be different if I was standing right there and in complete control of the physical environment. In a way, I feel “bad” that I cannot be there physically for him so that he can completely “let go” and have the trust that I am there and nothing bad could happen. Alas, that is not possible. Even still, we’ve worked on different activities and have built a bond and a comfort level where I am able to push his limits and he is able to do things that he would never have done by himself which has increased his level of trust as well as strengthened our D/s bond.

So, if you are looking for a Mistress into Sensual Domination Phone Sex and is able to responsibly push your limits, give me a call.

Mistress Violet
1-800-574-1830

Orgasm Control & Your Phone Sex Mistress

This is in response to a comment from kelly on Orgasm Control that was posted on the Chastity, Tease & Denial and Milking post.Single

My girl friend is so hot and sexy when she gets close to cumming she is very vocal and moves extra sexy and then she makes me cum before she gets to cum and this is not good.
I get in REALLY big trouble.
What techniques can I learn to stop this and what can she do to make me last longer for HER. Most of the time I can hold out but I want it to be all the time I can hold it and cum when she says. Can you please help me? She is everything to me and my job is whatever she gives me and to make her cum ALWAYS. Please, please and sugar on top. thank you
k

Well, the way that Your Phone Sex Mistress is most familiar with in prolonging ejaculation is more of a “hands on” method that I don’t think would work too well for you during intercourse where the tip or base of the penis is ‘pinched’ right before ejaculation hence preventing ejaculation and most times retaining the erection. However, I did read this article that discussed this method as well as another method that could work for you, if you’re willing to work at it. This is “phase 1” of the second method mentioned.

Men and women have a muscle called the pubococcygeus, or PC. It’s the one men (and women, too) can use to stop peeing when the police catch them using the alley after they’ve had too much beer. When a man has an erection, he can use the same muscle to make Mr. Willy bounce up and down like a puppet show. (A jaunty, high-pitched “Hello!” adds to the effect.) To become multiply orgasmic, this muscle has to be trained. Men can literally lift weights with it by giving themselves an erection and hanging a towel over the end and trying to lift the towel.

And now something that you naughty little “tease & denial phone sex” boys will love . . . “phase 2”

Masturbation. A lot of it. But unlike those days when he was 13 and the goal was to finish as quickly as possible before his sister needed the bathroom, he should go slowly and try to reach a peak so he feels the beginnings of the trembles. Then he should stop immediately . . . When the feeling has passed, he can resume masturbating and try it again. The goal is to distinguish between the orgasm phase and the ejaculation phase which, he may be surprised to learn, are two different things. Typically, ejaculation follows orgasm by a second or two, though in the heat of battle they seem one in the same.

If you would like to read the full article check out Prolonging Pleasure

Now, this isn’t a method that I have used with anybody unless you count practicing ‘tease & denial’ working on prolonging ejaculation, so I’m not sure how well it will work, but give it a try and let me know. I’m curious to see how well it will work for you. Another recommendation would be to utilize a cock ring during intercourse. Just be careful that it isn’t so tight that it cuts of circulation. I wouldn’t recommend chastity for you because I believe that it would only exacerbate your current situation.

I have to say that you’re on the right path in wanting to do whatever you can to please your girlfriend and I’m sure that she will encourage you in this pursuit. Good luck and keep me informed about whether or not this method does in fact increase your stamina and help to prolong/prevent your ejaculation.

Mistress Violet  1-800-574-1830

Mistress Phone Sex

Mistress Violet  1-800-574-1830Do you have what it takes for 2 girl phone sex and satisfy two assertive, aggressive women? Are you an utterly submissive slut that is willing to be used any way our deviant minds devise? Dying to be teased beyond all things sane and rational?

If you said yes to any or all of the above, you must call me, your phone sex Mistress and one of my sexy dominant girlfriend, Mistress Sabrina. We have a rapport that is beyond your wildest dreams and fantasies. Whether you’re into sensual, seductive tease and denial, hardcore extreme discipline and pain, forced feminization, crossdressing, bondage, small-dick humiliation, strap-on/anal play, or simply a slut that yearns to please, you need to call for the “full-on” dynamic domination duo, Mistress Violet & Mistress Sabrina!

We will turn your world upside down and inside out. You will be enthralled with the first wicked chuckle and addicted from the start. We are truly dominant women that know your place is at our feet and your purpose in life is to service our every whim.

Mistress Violet ~ 1-800-574-1830

Mistress Sabrina ~ 1-888-500-7551

Want to know more about our 2 girl phone fantasy role playing, check out our newest site at www.2girlsphonesex.com for different fantasy ideas and options! I have a hot fantasy coming up with delicious Dusty!

Your Mistress and Spanking Phone Sex

As a Phone Sex Mistress have a game that I love to play with naughty little boys. Bad little boys that “think” they want their cocks sucked and worshiped but secretly yearn for me to spank them for being bad little boys!
I recently had an encounter with this type of bad, little boy. It was one of those times that I decided to go out with a couple of friends for some drinks. As per usual, several men indicated that they’d like to “get to know me better”. Men can be so silly sometimes vying for my attentions. Well, the ‘lucky one’ this evening said something particularly enticing that indicated he’d be fun to ‘play with’.

“You’re so beautiful. I bet you would look even better down between my thighs.”

When he said that I laughed in his face and walked away but I kept tabs on this particular bad boy throughout the entire evening. Later in the evening, after having bought me several drinks, he approached again for a 2nd try figuring that I might be more receptive, perhaps. However, again, I just laughed in his face and that is when he said exactly what I’d been dying to hear.

“Please, you’re so beautiful. I really would do ANYTHING to get to know you better.”

Violet26And I replied, “Anything? Really? Well, why don’t you come home with me and let’s talk more.” So, I took this particular naughty boy home with me and talked to him a little more. Lulling him into ‘relax mode’ was incredibly easy. All I had to do was give him what he thought that he wanted, me down between his thighs. As he relaxed, I slowly tied up his ankles then came back up and sat on his lap smothering him in my tits giving me the perfect moment to quickly tie up his wrists. Before he was really aware of what had happened to him, I stepped off of him, took a long look at him and his ‘proud’ erect cock, laughed, and walked into the other room. His voice followed me asking, “What do you think that you’re doing tying me up? Get back in here?” along with several expletives.

When he finally became silent, this Phone Sex Mistress walked back into the room dressed to play in my black leather corset, black leather thong, and black thigh-high leather boots with 6″ spiked heels. In one hand I had a leather paddle with the word “SLUT” embedded in it and in the other I held my favorite flogger. The look on his face was priceless! Almost immediately he began to try to tell me ‘what for’ but after a couple of ‘stings’ from my flogger he was silent with a much better attitude. And that is when the real fun began … LOL!

And if you want to know what kind of naughty little girls I love to spank .. for 2 girl phone sex, why don’t you check out our main phone sex blog! Such succulent little treats with a creamy, white and deep, dark tushies just aching for a spanking!

Mistress Violet   1-800-574-1830

Fetish Phone Sex

06As a Dominatrix/Mistress, I have a great deal of experience with a variety of Fetish Phone Sex and sexual practices. Some of these fetishes are more “mainstream” and others are not so widely practiced. A particular “fetish” that is more “mainstream” but also has many variations is Exhibitionism.

Wikipedia defines Exhibitionism as:

Exhibitionism, known variously as flashing, apodysophilia and Lady Godiva syndrome, [1] is the psychological need and pattern of behavior to exhibit naked parts of the body to another person with a tendency toward an extravagant, usually at least partially sexually inspired behavior to captivate the attention of another in an open display of bare “private parts”  i.e., parts of the human body which would otherwise be left covered under clothing in nearly all other cultural circumstances.”

Go here for Wikipedia’s full definition of Exhibitionism.

Many deviant fetish practices are about an additional adrenaline rush or thrill. Exhibitionism is about the thrill of either possibly being seen or purposefully being seen by one or more people, usually strangers. Now, I’m not talking about exposing one’s self at a public sporting event or concert when you’re drunk and carousing. For most people, that type of “flashing” is a one time experience while under the influence, but if the experience is sexually thrilling it can lead to the desire to be seen naked masturbating or to be seen in flagrante delicto.

The “flip side” of Exhibitionism is Voyeurism. Wikipedia defines Voyeurism as:

Voyeurism is a practice in which an individual derives sexual pleasure from observing other people. Such people may be engaged in sexual acts, or be nude or in underwear, or dressed in whatever other way the “voyeur” finds appealing.”

For more on Voyeurism.

When it comes to Voyeurism there are a variety as well. For some it is as simple as looking through a “Playboy” or watching a video. Then there are those men that like to go to the strip clubs or fetish clubs to watch the action. For others, it can get more complex. For instance, a married man who would like to see his wife with other men; specifically other men that are well endowed. This type of voyeurism can lead to cuckolding where men either accept that their wife “steps out” on them or even encourages them to have extramarital affairs. Then either asks the wife to tell him about it or asks to be able to be there and watch/participate in the act. And still others that want to observe people in their most intimate moments undetected as in what’s been called “a peeping tom” which is illegal and serious invasion of privacy.

I find that when it comes to this Phone Sex Fetish, most people can be a little bit of both but tend to lean one way or the other in varying degrees. Some people want to be seen and other people prefer to watch. Sometimes it can all hinge on their self-esteem and/or confidence level and other times it’s all a matter of what turns them on.

What turns you on? Do you want to watch or do you want to be watched? I like to watch, so if you’re an exhibitionist, I’d be more than happy to be your voyeur…just give me a call!

Mistress Violet
1-800-574-1830

Phone Sex Mistress Update

Sexy Ms Violet 1*800*574*1830Well, your Phone Sex Mistress had a nice, quiet, and relaxing New Year’s ever this year. I just kicked back and had a night all to myself with a good bottle of wine, some delicious shrimp scampi and soothing jazz on the stereo. The only thing that might’ve made it just a touch better would’ve been if Santa had dropped off a sexy submissive slut to feed me the shrimp.

However, as fate would have it … a gift for your Phone Sex Mistress arrived New Year’s day. Can you imagine my surprise when my doorbell rang  and on my front porch stood a very sexy, young man dressed in a white t-shirt and tight jeans with a bow around his neck, lovely! I’d never met him before but he was so deliciously cute with that bow, I couldn’t resist! Now, I’m sure it was a little gift from one of my friends but the tag attached to the bow read, “To: Mistress Violet to celebrate 2014” and no matter how much I spanked, flogged , or whipped the sexy little present he never told me either. Such stamina, he almost wore me right out. It’s a good thing that he was excellent at massage and had a naughty little tongue. I couldn’t help but reward him, he took one hell of a ‘lickin’ and begged for more.

What more could a Domme ask for except maybe more toys from my favorite store?!? ExtremeRestraints.com Take a look at some of the fun toys they have to use on naughty little sluts! I just love their floggers and paddles for some serious Spanking Phone Sex. Also, I wouldn’t mind some new bondage furniture either!

Mistress Violet
1-800-574-1830

Strap-On Phone Sex

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I love to take the time to turn naughty, little boys into my perfect little sissy-slut maids for some serious Strap-on Phone Sex. I have this sexy sissy that stands 6’2″ with natural long blonde hair. Boy is ‘she’ sweet! I have to tell you about the first time I got ‘her’ all dressed pretty for me and the “world” that it opened up for ‘her’.

The first thing that I did to “transform” sweet little ‘stephanie’ was to take ‘her’ into the shower and bathe her from head to toe. I washed her long beautiful blonde tresses and used sweet smelling body wash and scrubs to get her skin so fresh, smooth and sweet smelling. Then I took my favorite shaving cream and shaved all the pertinent areas; legs, groin, and underarms. Once stephanie was all smooth and smelling delicious, I toweled her off and applied floral lotion so she smelled even more like a girl then ever before.

Then it was time to dress my sweet Phone Sex Sissy. I had decided that the first outfit was going to be something to fit her sweet but naughty nature, so I went with the ‘innocent catholic schoolgirl’ look. I put on some silky white lace-topped thigh-highs, some pretty white silk and lace panties, and a silky lace-edged underwire with breastforms to give her a little something extra. After that it was time for the actual outfit that consisted of a short black pleated skirt with a mild plaid of red and yellow, a demure short-sleeved white button-down blouse, basic black snap bowtie and some low-heeled patent leather mary janes.

After getting stephanie all dressed it was time for the final touches which included doing her hair and makeup. I painted her fingernails with Red Hot, her lips with red lip liner, crimson lip color, and cream and sugar gloss, her eyes with spun silk, hazelnut, and vintage gold eye colors, charcoal eye liner, black mascara, and sunny spice cheek color. Then I took a spiral curling iron to those long blonde tresses giving her some adorable pipe curls that I pulled into to little ponytails with pretty red ribbons.

I wish that I had taken a picture, unfortunately, I did not. Perhaps next time I will so that I can show you all how very pretty she looked. So sweetly sexy! It was a definite overall transformation. She couldn’t believe how pretty and feminine she looked. I knew she had it in her. She just couldn’t contain herself and she started to prance around twirling so her skirt flared and giggling. So very enticing!

And then, this Phone Sex Mistress just had to have her. And, of course, my sweet little naughty girl wanted to be fucked just as much as I wanted to fuck her. I didn’t even tie her up. She pretty much dropped to her knees to suck my strap-on and then I bent her over and gave her what I knew she was craving, a good hard fucking that, eventually, had her cumming hard into those pretty silk panties. What a naughty little girl, I love it!

When am I dressing you up?! 😉

Mistress Violet   1-800-574-1830

A Question for Your Phone Sex Mistress

Watching you!

Mistress Violet ~ 1-800-574-1830

 

Interesting question from a submissive for a Phone Sex Mistress

Mistress Violet,

Hello. I read some of your blog. I loved reading about “figging” and would love to experience it sometime. I have a question for you. Have you ever heard of a Mistress using jalapeno or habanero peppers on a sub’s ass (“pussy”)? If so, do you recommend it?

Hello pet, as a Phone Sex Mistress, I have heard of a lot of different activities and am experienced in almost as many. I have heard of using jalapeno or habenero peppers on a submissive’s ass or rubbing the pepper on an anal plug intended for the sub’s ass. I have also heard of using the seeds that are in either type of pepper for urethra insertions.

As for this Phone Sex Mistress, these activities are not something I am willing to do with an inexperienced submissive over the phone. I would try it with a sub that has experience with figging, at least, and even then I don’t believe that I would recommend using a seed as a urethra insertion because it seems too risky.

I would most likely use the pepper to lubricate an anal plug as opposed to ‘peeling a pepper’ and inserting the pepper itself into a sub’s anus. Unlike ginger root which is a fibrous root, peppers are hollow and ‘flimsy’ for lack of a better term and I think that could raise issues and it’s not something that I would want to ‘dig out’ of a sub’s ass. As for some sort of urethra insertion, I wouldn’t be opposed to doing something like a Q-tip dipped in jalapeno juice, but not the seed. Using a seed just seems a little too dangerous.

Hope that answers your question, pet. I look forward to a fun-filled anal figging session with you and then perhaps a ‘peppering’ as well.

Ms Violet
1-800-574-1830

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