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Fetish Phone Sex

06As a Dominatrix/Mistress, I have a great deal of experience with a variety of Fetish Phone Sex and sexual practices. Some of these fetishes are more “mainstream” and others are not so widely practiced. A particular “fetish” that is more “mainstream” but also has many variations is Exhibitionism.

Wikipedia defines Exhibitionism as:

Exhibitionism, known variously as flashing, apodysophilia and Lady Godiva syndrome, [1] is the psychological need and pattern of behavior to exhibit naked parts of the body to another person with a tendency toward an extravagant, usually at least partially sexually inspired behavior to captivate the attention of another in an open display of bare “private parts”  i.e., parts of the human body which would otherwise be left covered under clothing in nearly all other cultural circumstances.”

Go here for Wikipedia’s full definition of Exhibitionism.

Many deviant fetish practices are about an additional adrenaline rush or thrill. Exhibitionism is about the thrill of either possibly being seen or purposefully being seen by one or more people, usually strangers. Now, I’m not talking about exposing one’s self at a public sporting event or concert when you’re drunk and carousing. For most people, that type of “flashing” is a one time experience while under the influence, but if the experience is sexually thrilling it can lead to the desire to be seen naked masturbating or to be seen in flagrante delicto.

The “flip side” of Exhibitionism is Voyeurism. Wikipedia defines Voyeurism as:

Voyeurism is a practice in which an individual derives sexual pleasure from observing other people. Such people may be engaged in sexual acts, or be nude or in underwear, or dressed in whatever other way the “voyeur” finds appealing.”

For more on Voyeurism.

When it comes to Voyeurism there are a variety as well. For some it is as simple as looking through a “Playboy” or watching a video. Then there are those men that like to go to the strip clubs or fetish clubs to watch the action. For others, it can get more complex. For instance, a married man who would like to see his wife with other men; specifically other men that are well endowed. This type of voyeurism can lead to cuckolding where men either accept that their wife “steps out” on them or even encourages them to have extramarital affairs. Then either asks the wife to tell him about it or asks to be able to be there and watch/participate in the act. And still others that want to observe people in their most intimate moments undetected as in what’s been called “a peeping tom” which is illegal and serious invasion of privacy.

I find that when it comes to this Phone Sex Fetish, most people can be a little bit of both but tend to lean one way or the other in varying degrees. Some people want to be seen and other people prefer to watch. Sometimes it can all hinge on their self-esteem and/or confidence level and other times it’s all a matter of what turns them on.

What turns you on? Do you want to watch or do you want to be watched? I like to watch, so if you’re an exhibitionist, I’d be more than happy to be your voyeur…just give me a call!

Mistress Violet
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Sissy Phone Sex

Watching you!

Sexy Ms Violet ~ 1-800-574-1830

I couldn’t help but laugh today when one of my little sissy phone sex sluts called me and told me that his ‘girlfriend’ of 6 months had put him in a ‘cock cage’. It’s most likely either a CB6000 or some variation. Poor little daniel woke up to find that his cock was encased in a plastic cage and his girlfriend had already left for her business trip and she won’t be returning for yet another week (it’s been 3 days since she left, LOL!)

Apparently, the night before she was to leave on her business trip they had a little “party” where he drank a little too much, perhaps with her insistence, and awoke from his drunken stupor the next morning in quite a fix. From his obvious distress, I would say that this was an unexpected event, being locked up in a cock cage with cute little brass locks! However, she was kind enough to leave him with an aneros to use on himself. So, after 3 days of not being able to stroke his cock, he called his Phone Sex Mistress, me, to help him with at little “release”. According to him, he was unaware of the fact that she had a cock cage for him. When I asked him if she was a “mistress” he had said that he wasn’t sure, but that she was more ‘dominating’ then he had realized … LOL! Well, apparently the little slut has hooked-up with just the right kind of woman that he needs. So, he contacted me to help him through ‘milking’ himself because she wasn’t answering his calls, how delightfully devious of her, I must say.

In this Sissy Phone Sex session, we did achieve the desired results and he did find them pleasurable. What I’m wondering and I told him to let me know, is whether or not this increases or decreases his personal ‘level’ of horniness because it can go either way. I’ve found that consistent milking when a ‘pet’ is caged will help them stay focused on other things besides their cocks but it can either increase their horniness over all to the point where it is necessary to “let them out” for a good non-stop ‘wanking session’ or it can take all desire for ‘stroking’ away, almost completely. And I’m just curious to see which way it takes poor little daniel!

Mistress Violet ~ 1-800-574-1830

Phone Sex Mistress

Violet22Have you been missing posts from your Phone Sex Mistress? Aw, poor babies! I’ve been here, but I just haven’t been keeping all of you posted. That’s going to change. I’m back and ready to keep you updated on a much more regular basis.

For those of you that are new and seeking a Phone Sex Mistress, please take the time to peruse my blog to see about compatibility and if you might be interested in a session. As an overview, I am quite familiar with all manner of BDSM activities and am not only experienced on the phone, but ‘real time’ as well. However, I am not currently taking new submissives for  ‘real time’ sessions, so please don’t ask. Phone sessions can be limiting with some activities for safety reasons, but a lot can be achieved with mutual cooperation and creativity.

If you’ve taken the time to look around, you know that I am interested in activities that range from sensual to hardcore. Some of my phone specialties include but are not limited to:  Guided Masturbation, Feminization, Anal or Strap On Play, Spanking, CBT, Exhibitionism, Limited Blackmail, Chastity, Cock and/or Orgasm Control, Limited Bondage, Humiliation, Crossdressing/Sissies, Tease and Denial and BDSM role play. Our sessions can be strictly fantasy or more often, a role play combined with actual activities. The content of our sessions will be determined in the beginning and I encourage you to message me on either yahoo or aim for the opportunity to have a brief chat prior to our session.

Lastly, as a Phone Sex Mistress, I ask that you approach me with respect with your requests. I am open to all new ideas and activities, within reason. As a Dominatrix, I do not tend to do your ‘standard’ phone sex calls, but I am not opposed to fantasy scenarios as long as they’re along the lines of me being in control. I have and do sessions that are not exactly ‘strict BDSM’ but I am not your standard “phone girl” and generally, I am not one that is interested in your standard ‘suck and fuck’ type of calls. So, if you’re up for it, call me, Mistress Violet!

Mistress Violet   1-800-574-1830

2 Girl Phone Sex

Are you looking for a kinky 2 Girl Phone Sex session? Look no further because you’ve found it! I’m Mistress Violet, a wicked Dominatrix and here’s one of my sexy girlfriends, Alicia! We had a particularly fun time the other night with MH.

I own MH’s cock and he can only cum with my permission. That’s called Orgasm Control and I love to be in control! Alicia is a good cocksucker and we had a lot of fun doing Tease and Denial Phone Sex with MH. At first, I let her tease his cock, but soon I was pushing her head down on it and really making her take it.

Soon, I got out my toys for some Strap-On Phone Sex on MH’s tight ass while Alicia was fucking his cock with her throat. We were working him over really good, but I still wouldn’t let him cum, at least, not yet. I love to have a little slut like MH beg to cum. When MH started begging to cum and Alicia was begging for his cum, I decided it was time.

Are you looking to have a good time with two sexy women? Are you looking for a Domme and a sub or would you like two Dominant women to really work you over good? Alicia loves to play both ways! Give us a call and get just what you deserve!

Mistress Violet   1-800-574-1830

Alicia   1-866-846-5050

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My Summer Vacation

Ha ha ha, that title sounds so ‘Elementary school’. You remember when you were in grade school, it was the start of the new year and the teacher would ask the class to write a paragraph or essay on “what you did on your summer vacation”. Well, I’ve been asked by so many of you about my vacation that I decided to do a little essay.

What I Did On My Summer Vacation
By Mistress Violet

For an interesting journey, there needs to be an interesting beginning. So, my journey begins at an unusual hour, one in the morning. I packed my big leather backpack and secured it to my Harley Roadster. All the arrangements had been made for the care of my plants and pets while I was away. The excitement is mounting as I dress for my trip. I have on my tight black leather pants, a soft, thin long-sleeved purple t-shirt, my black leather high-heeled riding boots, and black leather jacket. All I need to start is to don my black leather gloves and helmet. I can taste the potential in the night air and I smile as I straddle my bike, put on my gloves and helmet, and kick my bike to life.
I love riding my bike on the highway at night. It’s almost magical like you’re cutting through the night and if you’re in the right place at the right time, you could slice your way into a whole new dimension. It’s one of the biggest non-chemically induced “highs” that I know. I was eagerly anticipating riding through the mountains at night on my bike. I’d only ever been through the mountains before in a car or truck. As expected, it was awesome! I sped along clinging to my bike, my bike clinging to the road. It was a very “zen-like” experience, otherworldly even. I was one with the bike and the bike was one with the road and the road was one with the mountains. There really is no other way to explain it.
The sun started to come up as I was riding down out of the mountains and the day was beginning to warm up. I stopped at Love’s Travel Center to stretch my legs and adjust my clothing for the coming day’s ride. I got a few curious looks when I walked into the store but on the way out, after I changed my clothes, I got some gaping stares and a few heartfelt wolf whistles. I had kept my leather pants but exchanged my t-shirt and jacket for a tight leather tank top and I’d unpinned my hair because the helmet was getting too warm. I wanted the sun in my face, the wind in my hair, and that wild and free feeling of the open road.
I was on the road again and onto my first destination, the palaver with my Domme friends. We met up at a luxury hotel with all the appropriate trimmings: rich, plush furnishings, a huge plasma TV with DVD and surround sound, a private whirlpool spa tub, a balcony overlooking the meditation garden, a five-star gourmet restaurant, a nightclub with daily entertainment, full day spa facilities, and room service. The perfect place for good company and relaxation. I spent a few days there with my girlfriends taking full advantage of all that was offered. We relaxed in the spa, dined at the restaurant, drank and danced at the nightclub while we exchanged stories and session ideas. Then it was on the road again.
I had a few more surprise visits planned which I will tell you about soon!

Hope you enjoyed my little essay 😉
Talk to you soon!

Mistress Violet ~ 1-800-574-1830

Summertime Fun

This summer has been a bit crazy for me. All you poor submissives dying to hear from me and I’ve been so busy thinking up wild and crazy things for you to do for me on the phone. LOL 😉

I have Keith The Exhibitionist getting on webcam and running around his house naked doing his dishes and spanking his ass for being a naughty slut. Then there is The Amazing Ironman Cockstroker working hard, day in and day out, to expel all that ‘evil’ when he’s not in his alter-ego fighting for freedom from the harsh command of ‘the red scare’ or crashing into things on his bike. 😉 And “Daniel” the naughty boy that I haven’t heard from in some time that needed a good milking. “Kelly” in New Jersey is in serious need of a big juicy cock to suck and fuck. Of course, “Stephanie” in Louisianna is looking to get dressed up nice and slutty and ride my big purple strap-on. There’s nothing I love to hear more than a horny slutty ‘girl’ begging to ride my strap-on except for maybe ‘her’ moans and groans when I pound it deep into her slutty ass! LOL! And there are an assortment of new sluts that I am looking forward to hearing from more the rest of this year.

I want to let all my good, faithful pets know that I have been offered an invitation to a little gathering of women like myself. I have chosen to accept the invitation and am looking forward to a little “fun in the sun”. I will be on “holiday” from July 21st until sometime between the 26th & 28th. I’m not exactly sure when I’ll be returning home as I’ll be doing a little “road trip” on my Harley. If you’re in dire need, check for my availability on the weekend of the 26th, I may be home by then, if not then, for sure on the 28th.

I’ll be sure to tell you all about what fun we have and share any new ideas that I have to tease, torture, and torment you all! Behave while I’m away!

Mistress Violet

Super Bitch Mistress for Phone Sex Series 2

And now for the second installment in the Super Bitch Mistress vs. The IronMan Cockstroker. This part shows how the IronMan needs the Super Bitch Mistress to rid him of all his evil .. Read on ..

[11:56] Super Bitch Mistress: and who calls whom to have her tell him how to stroke his dick?

[11:56] IronManCockStroker: ooooooo

[11:56] IronManCockStroker: 🙂

[11:56] IronManCockStroker: fun fun 🙂

[11:56] Super Bitch Mistress: because somebody obviously doesn’t know how to stroke his own cock by his lonesome 😛

[11:56] IronManCockStroker: ouch

[11:57] Super Bitch Mistress: Ha ha!

[11:57] Super Bitch Mistress: Gotcha!

[11:57] IronManCockStroker: just because my real head doesn’t have much blood flowing to it anymore

[11:57] IronManCockStroker: logic …failing…. can’t…compute

[11:57] Super Bitch Mistress: Does it ever?!? 😛

[11:57] IronManCockStroker: has less than normal

[11:58] IronManCockStroker: you forget…whilst arguing, i’ve been looking at porn for about the past hour

[11:58] Super Bitch Mistress: lol

[11:59] Super Bitch Mistress: and yet you have the brain clarity to remind me … on huh

[11:59] IronManCockStroker: ?

[11:59] IronManCockStroker: remind you of what?

[11:59] Super Bitch Mistress: indeed

[11:59] IronManCockStroker: so confused

[11:59] Super Bitch Mistress: I think you’re about to puke .. watch out 😛

[12:00] Super Bitch Mistress: uh oh .. the little head is going to puke

[12:00] IronManCockStroker: no…still haven’t started ….still just rubbin’…lol

[12:00] Super Bitch Mistress: poor thing is just so tired of getting all shook up lol

[12:00] IronManCockStroker: it knows i treat it well

[12:00] IronManCockStroker: don’t ya buddy????

[12:01] Super Bitch Mistress: but you make it throw up so often and for no real purpose .. he thinks he’s aneorexic

[12:01] Super Bitch Mistress: lol

[12:01] IronManCockStroker: lol

[12:01] IronManCockStroker: Hey! You contributed to that as well

[12:01] Super Bitch Mistress: poor little starving member

[12:01] Super Bitch Mistress: lmao

[12:01] IronManCockStroker: not like You’re innocent in this

[12:01] Super Bitch Mistress: Oh, I’m far from innocent period 😛

[12:02] Super Bitch Mistress: guilty and loving it!

[12:02] IronManCockStroker: and fyi…he’s telling me to thank You for all those times You did make him puke

[12:02] Super Bitch Mistress: LOL

[12:02] Super Bitch Mistress: he’s a sick little puppy

[12:02] Super Bitch Mistress: LMAO

[12:02] IronManCockStroker: nah….just infected with a case of riggamortis

[12:02] Super Bitch Mistress: oh .. better yet … a dead puppy

[12:03] Super Bitch Mistress: lol

[12:03] IronManCockStroker: no…he’s alive

[12:03] IronManCockStroker: look…you can see a pulse

[12:03] Super Bitch Mistress: Oh .. so he’s a vampire .. I get it

[12:03] Super Bitch Mistress: LOL

[12:03] Super Bitch Mistress: Sucks the life out of you … to puke for Me 😛

[12:04] IronManCockStroker: well he’d rather BE sucked than to suck

[12:04] Super Bitch Mistress: lol

[12:04] IronManCockStroker: but funny thing is..the more he pukes for You, the better i feel 🙂

[12:04] Super Bitch Mistress: Sucking all the evil out of you

[12:04] Super Bitch Mistress: lol

[12:04] IronManCockStroker: there we go

[12:04] IronManCockStroker: lol

[12:04] Super Bitch Mistress: and puking it up for the betterment of mankind in general

[12:05] IronManCockStroker: damn skippy

[12:05] IronManCockStroker: 😀

[12:05] IronManCockStroker: but not yet

[12:05] IronManCockStroker: lol

[12:06] IronManCockStroker: still haven’t really “started”

[12:06] IronManCockStroker: lol

[12:07] Super Bitch Mistress: Indeed

[12:07] Super Bitch Mistress: Just getting him revved up and sucking the evil .. gotta fill him up with evil first before he can puke it out 😛

[12:08] IronManCockStroker: there ya go

[12:08] IronManCockStroker: nice way of lookin’ at it

[12:08] Super Bitch Mistress: and you’re just such a humanitarian that you want him to suck as much evil out of you as possible each time .. so you take your time with it and do it right 😛

[12:08] IronManCockStroker: he’s startin’ to get antsy though

[12:09] Super Bitch Mistress: it’s the evil entering him .. I’m sure that’s what makes him ‘antsy’

Stay tuned for more!

Super Bitch Mistress for Phone Sex Series 1

super-bitch.gifHi Boys! I want to give you a little glimpse into the “lighter side” of Domination phone sex. This little series is from a couple of IM (instant message) conversations that I’ve had with one of my little sluts that you may be familiar with if you’ve read a lot of my blog, The IronMan Cockstroker. Not only is he an avid caller, but one of his hobbies outside of me controlling his cock is comic books. Over the years, we’ve had several entertaining and humorous conversations gearing up for sessions. The IronMan takes guided masturbation very seriously, but he does have a keen sense of humor that I appreciate and I hope it shows in this series …. Enjoy!

In this first installment, Super Mistress is getting IronMan’s mind back in the gutter where it belongs by suggesting some porn which IronMan loves (heck all men love), but IronMan loves and seeks often.

[10:58] IronManCockStroker: yay for boobies!!

[10:58] IronManCockStroker: you’ll get my mind back in the gutter!!! go boobies go!

[10:59] Super Bitch Mistress: big titties rule! 😛 (laughing, rolling my eyes, & shaking my head)

[10:59] IronManCockStroker: all titties rule

[10:59] Super Bitch Mistress: lol (laugh out loud)

[10:59] Super Bitch Mistress: an equal opportunity boobie boy 😛 (sarcastically)

[10:59] IronManCockStroker: big boobs, small boobs, boobs that climb on rocks

[10:59] Super Bitch Mistress: boobs that climb on rocks?!?

[10:59] Super Bitch Mistress: those are some fantastical boobies

[11:00] IronManCockStroker: you’ve never heard that expression?? replace “boobs” with “kids”

[11:00] IronManCockStroker: i just use that expression whenever i want to encompass ALL things “big ______, small_____, _____that climb on rocks”

[11:00] Super Bitch Mistress: oh okay then

[11:00] Super Bitch Mistress: I never refer to my boobies as “the kids”

[11:00] IronManCockStroker: nor should you

[11:00] Super Bitch Mistress: I have referred to them as “the puppies” though

[11:01] Super Bitch Mistress: as in .. it’s been a long day, I think I’ll unleash the puppies (meaning take off the bra or corset)

[11:01] IronManCockStroker: release the hounds!

[11:01] Super Bitch Mistress: ah, no

[11:02] Super Bitch Mistress: that brings to mind .. sagging .. drooping .. um … I prefer to call em puppies .. that gives the illusion of “perky upright alert active” Which my “boobies” are, aren’t they?!

[11:02] IronManCockStroker: fair enough

[11:03] IronManCockStroker: i prefer to call them boobies

[11:03] IronManCockStroker: or tits

[11:03] IronManCockStroker: or fun bags

[11:03] IronManCockStroker: or melons

[11:03] IronManCockStroker: or pillows

[11:03] Super Bitch Mistress: okay then

[11:03] Super Bitch Mistress: lol (laugh out loud, enough already)

[11:03] IronManCockStroker: and this lady’s got a nice pair 🙂

[11:03] IronManCockStroker: i loves me some porn 🙂

And Super Mistress has succeeded by getting IronMan’s mind back where it belongs! Look for the next installment soon!

Occasionally, Little Things Amuse Me

Even in Middle Earth … Boys will be bad boys! LOL

The fun I could’ve had with them, men and elves both!
Mistress Violet
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